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[Bear Hammer]

Your priorities are really out of order here. You should wait until your brain is fully developed before even considering marriage. From what I've read from you on both sites you're extremely immature. If you rush to get married you're guaranteed to fuck up your life and whatever girl is foolish enough to not see you for what you are

Whose sock are you? Ashley?

 

[The One Who Knocks]

Whose sock are you? Ashley?

You'd remember me from the Crabshack

 

[Bear Hammer]

You'd remember me from the Crabshack

… Chudborean?

 

[Bear Hammer]

Your priorities are really out of order here. You should wait until your brain is fully developed before even considering marriage. From what I've read from you on both sites you're extremely immature. If you rush to get married you're guaranteed to fuck up your life and whatever girl is foolish enough to not see you for what you are

Why am I guaranteed to fuck in my life if I get married young? I don't really see anything wrong with settling down with a girl I love and growing as people together compared just fucking a bunch of random people and get married as a jaded and ran down person in your thirty's.

 

[The One Who Knocks]

Why am I guaranteed to fuck in my life if I get married young?

Because you're retarded and over confident. You have very little understanding of the world around you, let alone understanding of yourself. When you realize how and why most of your current opinions are cringe bullshit, then you might be ready

get married as a jaded and ran down person in your thirty's.

Your brain is fully developed at 25, dummy. I'm sure 25 seems like a lifetime away since 5 years is a quarter of the time you've been alive but it would be wise not to rush to being a divorcee before you're 30. Which is going to happen, since you are not a man yet but think chaining some poor girl to you is going to fill a hole that's obviously missing.
Be smart and at least cohabitate with whatever girl for a few years before getting married. Let all that dopamine+oxytocin fueled puppy love and the honeymoon period wear off, then evaluate how compatible you are with her.
See if you're still googoo gaga about her after three years and you walk into the bathroom that she's just annihilated only to hear her yelling at you from another room to come clean up your Doki Doki Faguchan dolls or whatever manbaby shit

 

[Bear Hammer]

Your brain is fully developed at 25, dummy. I'm sure 25 seems like a lifetime away since 5 years is a quarter of the time you've been alive but it would be wise not to rush to being a divorcee before you're 30.

>"Just get married when you're 25 just at the moment your looks, fertility and energy start to take a nosedive bro"
No, and using the "your brain develops when you're 25" meme to justify getting married old is one of the most reddit things ever.

It's really funny you are calling me a manbaby when you are literally telling me I should just go on the most juvenile, risk and responsibility averse life path possible. Do things with as less risk and responsibilities as possible and just do nothing meaningful. So you think I am a manbaby because I want to take the ultimate responsibility of a wife and raising a family as early as possible and not just playing video games and jerking off all day? What the fuck is your definition of a manbaby exactly???

Your advice to cohabitate is exactly the kind of sterile, 'try-before-you-buy' mentality that creates divorce anyway. It turns a covenant into just a consumer transaction pretty much. Statistics actually show that 'testing it out' through cohabitation increases the likelihood of divorce because you're training yourself to keep one foot out the door.


I am not getting married because of a 'dopamine rush' I am getting married because I share a duty and a vision with my wife. I'd rather grow with my wife, shape each other while we are young, energetic, and malleable than wait until we are 25-30, set in our ways, cynical, and carrying a decade of baggage from 'testing' other people.

 

[The One Who Knocks]

to justify getting married old

25 isn't old dumbass, it's literally the prime of your life

Your advice to cohabitate is exactly the kind of sterile, 'try-before-you-buy' mentality that creates divorce anyway

No, it's what prevents divorce. You'll learn a lot about a person during the first 3 years living together and statistically you're unlikely to feel the same way you did as when you got together. You've never been in a serious relationship, so you have zero clue what you're talking about, just memes you've absorbed via osmosis from other spastics.
The fact that you're having an autistic tantrum over being told you're wrong is proof that you're not ready for anything. But hey, it's your life to fuck up, at least someone told you what reality is

 

[Bear Hammer]

25 isn't old dumbass, it's literally the prime of your life

It's actually the exact opposite, that's just a western feminist meme. 25 is the age where most people start to show signs of aging (looks go down), where if you have kids the likelihood of them getting a disability increases significantly, and where women start to become wayyyy less fertile and have less energy. 25 is actually the point where things will start to go down a lot in your life. Your body is literally made to have children from your mid teens to early twenties.

I am actually in the prime of my life right now, I am the most fertile and most energetic than I will ever be. There's literally no better time to get married than right now.

No, it's what prevents divorce. You'll learn a lot about a person during the first 3 years living together and statistically you're unlikely to feel the same way you did as when you got together. You've never been in a serious relationship, so you have zero clue what you're talking about, just memes you've absorbed via osmosis from other spastics.
The fact that you're having an autistic tantrum over being told you're wrong is proof that you're not ready for anything. But hey, it's your life to fuck up, at least someone told you what reality is

I can't of a single thing about my partner that would be so different than my interactions with her already that would completely change how I view her already. And even if there was I highly doubt it would be absolutely relationship breaking.