That's not abuse, it's being a good friend.
Getting a surprise massage is friendly and Godly.
It would be abusive to say something like:
@Doll IM GOING TO BITE YOUR CLITORIS OFF CHEW IT AND SPIT IT INTO YOUR FACE YOU LOUSY RANCID GIRLFAILURE FUCK
On a side note, Keno. You remind me how one time I jokingly told a classmate of mine in the 12 grade how I was "aroused" by blood. She turned beet red and started rubbing her legs together, whatever that meant.