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Do you want to have kids?

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Personally, I wouldn’t. The idea of having a child with a severe disability like very low functioning autism is something I couldn't mentally or emotionally handle. I know it’s taboo to admit, but if my kid couldn't ever live independently, talk to me normally, have friends, get a job, or experience anything close to a normal life, I wouldn’t feel like I had the same experience of parenthood that most people do.


People always say "you’ll love them anyway" but I don’t think it’s fair to bring a life into this world if the potential outcome is that level of suffering or dependence. That's not the kind of parent I want to be, and I don't think everyone should have kids if they’re not willing to take on that risk.

Curious to what others think. Would you still want kids knowing there’s a chance you might never really connect with them in a typical way? Or is that a risk you think is worth it?
 
Depends... I have an experience of raising a kid from them infant days up to teenage years so it's kind of given that I have went through the "dad school" in a way. Thanks to my young brother.
But overall... I dont know anymore. I still strive to reach this point in life but the further I go and live on the worse things get. So I don't feel like I have certianty in anything except that I would've done my best to make my child's life balanced and setting up the life goals and purpose prior to adult life.
 
Depends, one major factor setting me off of it is if disabled and a pain in the ass to control and maintain.
Don’t stress too much about it, no one's gonna be lining up to have kids with you anyway. Problem solves itself.


You might want to rethink this post Jesus fucking Christ
He's a literal open pedophile, so I don't think many people are going to be excited about having kids with him lol.

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Don’t stress too much about it, no one's gonna be lining up to have kids with you anyway. Problem solves itself.



He's a literal open pedophile, so I don't think many people are going to be excited about having kids with him lol.

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His post comes across as him wanting an armless child to rape without having to take care of it.
 
You might want to rethink this post Jesus fucking Christ
Holy shit! You're right. I wrote it wrong. When I meant set it off, I never factored in the added meanings to this. God damn I'm illiterate.
His post comes across as him wanting an armless child to rape without having to take care of it.
I'd be disturbed if this is true.
Don’t stress too much about it, no one's gonna be lining up to have kids with you anyway. Problem solves itself.
You're right. Thank's for relieving my anxiety.
 
Do you at least have someone lining up to fuck you?
My landlord does it for me.
> if

Are you saying that you don't know if you want to rape an armless kid or not?
Of course I don't. I'd never do that. Too fucked up for me. I don't want to put shitty scenarios in my poorly made drawings into the real world.
 
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