Americas Rapper Da Brat & her wife explain why they chose a white sperm donor for their first child

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This article was practically written to cause a dumpster fire. Question remains, why are black men more reluctant to donate sperm compared to white men? Lack of access? Shame? Or do the kinds of women who have the wealth to shop for a sperm donor generally prefer white sperm, even when they're black women themselves?

"We didn't have a lot to choose from, he definitely wasn't Black," Brat told The Root in an interview published last week.

The couple, who married in February 2022, said that they started with a few thousand candidates, but once they ruled some out based on Dupart's genetic screening, they were left with 300 potential donors, and only one was Black.

Brat said that the man "looked like Jiminy Cricket," adding: "I was like, "I'm sorry but that wasn't gonna be my choice."

The Chicago rapper added that despite the lack of suitable donors, she thinks she and Dupart made the right choice.

"I think we did a great job with picking," she said. "He's handsome, he's tall and I think he's going to look beautiful with my wife's egg."

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On Tuesday, Dupart took to Instagram to hit back at criticism that she and Brat didn't want a Black child.

"Black men make up less than 5% of the donation pool," she wrote in the comments section of a post from Baller Alert sharing the news of the couple's choice of donor.

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Brat, 49, and Dupart, 41, first announced that they were expecting in February.

In an interview with People, they detailed the difficulties of their fertility journey, revealing that a few days after their first embryo transfer, the pregnancy miscarried.

 

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This is Da Brat's wife explaining why she chose the white sperm:


She wanted a black sperm donor... there were none


There Is A Shortage Of Black Sperm Donors And Blk Women Are Suffering The Consequences


I've been scrolling for pages on Youtube and all the sperm donors I see are lily white. The first video I came across by a black man talking about sperm donation was this one (he's a "surrogacy attorney based out of Los Angeles, California" not a donor himself):


I wonder, if the average woman knew how crazy high the selection standards are at a sperm bank... would they too change their standards for which male they agree to procreate with? Ladies, here's how you screen a man to determine if he's dad material: you send him to the sperm bank and if they turn him down, you turn him down.

"Less than 1% of sperm donation applicants qualify"

Either black men have super-sperm and never need to borrow another man's sperm, or black men are too shy to go to the sperm bank to donate sperm... or black men's sperm is too bad quality to meet the high standards of a sperm bank... or there are too few black women needing a black donor for supply to meet demand.

Another explanation I came up with: black couples are so ashamed of admitting that the male in the relationship is "inadequate", that black females are more likely to solve the problem on their own without the help of a clinic... by just humping another brother and not telling their man or anyone else about it. That way, no one needs to know a thing. Cheaper too.

Can some of the Race Studies people out there figure this one out for me? :unsure:
 
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