Vivian is still begging the questions...
Vivian is still posting on Bsky begging people there to sending him questions for his upcoming post post post post mortem he's really gonna leave this time fr fr he won't be back in 3 months with yet another GFM scam fr fr:
Here's why everyone on Bsky is just ignoring him and refusing to post any questions: they know the moment someone asks a remotely critical or pointed question, he will block them and cry about being harassed on Bsky. Here's Vivian lying to one his Youtube subs about the reason the left Bsky, falsely claiming he was subject to "harassment" at the time:
However, if you read the actual thread that Vivian posted before he rage-quit Bsky back in 2023, the actual stated reason he left Bsky was because he felt ignored by everyone there. Vivian didn't leave Bsky because of any "harassment", he left because he's an attention whore narc and no one was paying him any mind, so he wasn't getting the narc supply he need for his ego-validation. People cared so little about Vivian on Bsky, they didn't even care to bother harassing him. The Google Doc with the allegations against him was only shared on Bsky months after Vivian had already left the platform.
Anyways, here is a list of questions I have for Vivian Strange. I was thinking of making a burner account on Youtube to pose them during the Livestream, but I really do not want to give Google my mobile phone number. Then I thought about making a Bsky account, but Bsky is just a incestuous woke cult space with an even more draconian and censorious ToS than Youtube, so I can't trust them with my data either. I'm just gonna post the questions here, to show everyone what an actual Q&A with Vivian Strange would've looked like if he wasn't sheltered from actual pointed questions by censorious hyperwoke platforms:
Questions for Vivian Strange:
1) Are you accusing Lola, Jane, Elaine and Aziel of being hypergamous for turning down your sexual advances? Are you accusing them of being hypergamous because of capitalism? Aren't you yourself hypergamous and ambitious for wanting to have sex with (bigger) Youtubers? Do you insist that if it weren't for capitalism, no one would have any sexual standards or ambitions, and everyone would just get with everyone regardless of rank or class? Do you understand the social function of distinction outside of a capitalist context?
2) Why did you tell Jane that you didn't love Serafina anymore, only to go ahead and marry Serafina right after you were called out? ("My girlfriend is in California and Vivian told me she intended on moving there within a year or two with Lola, which gave me false hope. She told me that she had full intention to leave her girlfriend as she no longer was in love with her. I felt bad for her partner but ultimately chose to respect Vivian’s established boundaries and not get to know her as it was what Vivian called a conflict of interest.") Why did you bar your friends from meeting Serafina? Did Serafina know that you meant to move to LA with Lola?
3) Why do you claim to be Roma when you've admitted on your now deleted Letterboxd reviews that you aren't Roma and, to quote your words, "not a part of the [Roma] community"? Why did you use the Roma flag in the background of your videos? Are you doing this just to piss off Tali by appropriating an ethnic identity that isn't yours to claim?
4) According to the Google Doc, Elaine attempted suicide twice because of something you said. What did you say to Elaine that drove them suicidal? Were you made aware of these two suicide attempts and the fact that you apparently prompted them by either Jane or Elaine after they happened? Why did you continue to agitate Elaine after the first suicide attempt?
5) Why do you insist against all evidence that all trans people are bisexual or are supposed to be bisexual?
6) Why do you insist against all evidence that all queer people are non-monogamous or are supposed to be non-monogamous?
7) Why did you attempt to trick an adolescent into attending a queer sex club, without warning them in advance that this was the kind of club you were taking them to? Why did you attempt to take them to a queer sex show yet again after they already told you they didn't feel comfortable attending such an establishment?
8) Jane said in the Google Doc testimony of you, quote: "Vivian would feign respect for our boundaries, but to her, a “no” only meant a “not now.”.". Why do you insist that Jane is wrong in describing you as someone who won't take no for an answer? If you apparently think that you can use anarchist ideology to convince people to change their sexual preferences, doesn't that literally make you someone who won't take no for an answer?
9) Lola said in her testimony that you told her something so deeply disturbing, she decided she no longer wanted to be your friend: "It was also around this time that she revealed to me some personal beliefs that I found frankly odious. The way she talked about her girlfriend and Jane in particular made me deeply uncomfortable. I planned to distance myself from her when we were done working at the theater.". This was something you had told Lola before the incident at her house where she permanently ended your friendship. What did you tell Lola that disturbed her so much?
10) Did you accuse Lola Sebastian of dressing up just to sexually arouse you? Do you think women only dress up just to sexually arouse everyone around them? Do you still believe that if you get aroused from the way someone dress, they somehow have an obligation to cater to your sexual whims because they "provoked" your arousal? How is you making such accusations against your former best friend not the literal definition of rapey?
11) If you only want to have sex with people who share your anarchist principles, then why did you lust after all these people who very obviously aren't anarchists and do not share your political or relational beliefs? Did Lola, Jane, Elaine or Aziel ever identify themselves to you as anarchist? Why expect these people to be anarchist or even your own flavour of anarchist, if they never identified themselves as such?
12) Why did Jane describe the relationship to you as almost like joining a cult in its inception stage? ("In a way I felt like I was being indoctrinated into what could only be described as a cult in its inception stage") Did you try to force Jane into becoming an anarchist? Did you punish Jane for refusing to become an anarchist?
13) You quote Crimethinc a lot, but Crimethinc is very controversial in anarchist circles, in fact a lot of anarchists themselves do not like Crimethinc as evidenced by your own comment section), so why are you using Crimethinc as an "appeal to authority" instead of articulating your own ideas in your own words? Do people have to read Crimethinc just to be around you as humans?
14) In her Bsky thread, Lola quoted a message that you sent to "someone"* where you insisted that Tali wouldn't care if you and Lola slept in the same bed together. Tali's tweets about you suggest otherwise and suggest that Tali very much would've objected to that. Were you deliberately lying to Jane when you said that Tali wouldn't mind?
* If anyone hasn't seen what I'm referring to here, this is the screenshot of a DM from Vivian to "someone" that Lola shared on Bsky:
15) Why did you insist to Jane that Lola should "just" overcome her rape trauma to sleep in the same bed with you? Do you still not comprehend how shockingly cruel and entitled this demand sounds?
16) Why did you call Lola a "bitch" for refusing to sleep in the same bed with you? Why are you weaponizing a friend's rape trauma to be so cruel and demeaning towards her? Is you addressing a victim of rape as a "bitch" not ample evidence of your own sadism, pornsickness and toxic masculinity, no matter how "feminine" you claim to "feel"?
17) In the same Discord message, you said that you would've dumped Lola if she was your girlfriend and didn't agree to sleep with you on the very same night upon meeting you. You said this in reference to Lola confiding to you that she, due to her trauma, had to wait a day before feeling comfortable to sleep in the same bed with Tali when they first met IRL. Tali apparently didn't mind to wait a day for Lola to feel comfortable, but you insisted that Lola taking her time to get to a headspace where she felt safe around Tali was somehow Lola being "abusive" towards Tali, doing "a shitty thing". Do you understand how utterly warped and, yes, manipulative you are being here? Tali clearly did not feel "abused" for being made to wait for a single day, so how the fuck are you projecting your own impatience onto someone else? Have you literally never been in a relationship that wasn't a "hook-up" and immediately sexual upon the very first meeting? Have you literally never experienced any form of courtship ever in your life?
18) According to my own timeline of what led up to the incident on Oct 13th 2023, you were working on a video about the Saw franchise at the time (a video that did come out later but was DMCAed in a lot of territories, so I guess some of your viewers might not have seen it). You were going to spend the weekend watching Saw movies with Lola at her house for the sake of your Saw video. In addition to this, you and Lola had worked on a new premiering show at her mom's theater on that very same day (I have the flyer for this show, I didn't post it here because Lola is on it under her real name, though you are listed on it as "Vivian Strange"). Why did you never mention any of this additional context when you pointed out that Lola was "nervous" around you? What if Lola was just "nervous" about the premiere, or because she dreaded the prospect of spending a whole weekend watching Saw and discussing movies with you after an already stressful workday? This was also after Oct 7th and the start of the War in Ghaza, so did you ever consider that perhaps you yourself were agitated over the war, and it was your own agitation that rubbed off on Lola making her nervous to be around you? You're trying to make it seem like Lola had no reason to be nervous around you, like her nervousness came out of nowhere and you just had to interrogate her incessantly about it, but my own timeline suggests that Lola had ample reasons to be nervous around you, and one of those reasons was likely you yourself and your own agitating response to the emerging war.
19) What did you mean when you told Jane and Elaine to "do whatever feels good in the moment"? ("She would essentially encourage the worst out of me by encouraging me and Jane to just do whatever feels good in the moment. She would encourage my bad behavior and celebrate it by saying I should do more.") It seems a lot of their [Elaine and Jane] issues with you stem from you telling them this, so what did you specifically mean when you told them to "do whatever feels good"? Were you encouraging them to be hedonistic? Even at the expense of others or themselves?
20) In the Google Doc Jane accused you of being "transactional". ("She hates anyone who does not give her what she craves-- love, attention, adoration, sex, drugs, etc. even if she previously adored the person. She views everything as transactional and can't process the idea that some actions come from the heart.") You appeared to vaguely respond to this accusation in the Livestream you've now deleted by saying that you always saw Youtube as a job. However, Jane wasn't just a Youtuber you associated with professionally, but someone you yourself described as your "best friend" and as someone you associated with off-Youtube. So, are you transactional towards your friends?
21) Why did you tell Jane "I'd go monogamous for you"? ("At times she would even say things such as “I would go monogamous for you” to Jane, which is something she has not even extended to her own partner.") You're obviously not monogamous, not even now that you're married to Serafina, so why did you tell Jane this? How can you deny that this is plainly manipulative and you deliberately lying to people just to seduce them with things you think they want to hear?
22) Why did you tell Jane to move in with you in Portland after Jane told you about going to California to be with Elaine? ("I caught Vivian in the midst of gaslighting as she wouldn't accept the fact that Elaine and I finally worked out all of our problems (mostly caused by her) and started saying I didn't really want to move to California. It was at this point that I called her out for gaslighting me and I was existentially horrified as our friendship developed as we had the goal of moving there.") Youtuber Soulbunni whom you've Livestream-interviewed on your channel later moved to Portland, so was that also at your behest? Why are you trying to bring all these Youtubers to Portland with you? Why don't you ever leave Portland to visit anyone where they are?
23) Why did Serafina write a script about gender swapped brother-sister teenagers where one of the teens is called "Sebastian"? Lola has a brother, so was this script inspired or prompted by Lola and her brother? (There's another character in that script with Lola's brother's name, I won't mention which because I don't want to doxx Lola's brother) Were you and Serafina using Lola and her brother as gooning material for your own personal fantasies about transgender teenagers? Is this the reason you didn't want Lola to meet Serafina? Do you and Serafina often goon together while gender-swapping people you know personally and imagining them as teenagers?
24) You apparently refer to yourself as an "ex-creator" now. If you're an "ex-creator", are you also a destroyer now?
25) You insisted you've never touched Lola in her sleep. Why would Lola make this up about you, given how angry you apparently were about her not wanting to sleep in the same bed with you? Are you accusing Lola of hallucinating this or what? Isn't this corroborated by the fact that you took a picture of Aziel while resting on your couch? Do these two incidents not establish a pattern of you taking advantage of people while they're sleeping?
He will obviously never answer these questions but this is what a real Q&A would be like.
He would melt into a puddle if anyone ever questioned him about his bullshit like this.
Vivian is still posting on Bsky begging people there to sending him questions for his upcoming post post post post mortem he's really gonna leave this time fr fr he won't be back in 3 months with yet another GFM scam fr fr:
Here's why everyone on Bsky is just ignoring him and refusing to post any questions: they know the moment someone asks a remotely critical or pointed question, he will block them and cry about being harassed on Bsky. Here's Vivian lying to one his Youtube subs about the reason the left Bsky, falsely claiming he was subject to "harassment" at the time:
However, if you read the actual thread that Vivian posted before he rage-quit Bsky back in 2023, the actual stated reason he left Bsky was because he felt ignored by everyone there. Vivian didn't leave Bsky because of any "harassment", he left because he's an attention whore narc and no one was paying him any mind, so he wasn't getting the narc supply he need for his ego-validation. People cared so little about Vivian on Bsky, they didn't even care to bother harassing him. The Google Doc with the allegations against him was only shared on Bsky months after Vivian had already left the platform.
Anyways, here is a list of questions I have for Vivian Strange. I was thinking of making a burner account on Youtube to pose them during the Livestream, but I really do not want to give Google my mobile phone number. Then I thought about making a Bsky account, but Bsky is just a incestuous woke cult space with an even more draconian and censorious ToS than Youtube, so I can't trust them with my data either. I'm just gonna post the questions here, to show everyone what an actual Q&A with Vivian Strange would've looked like if he wasn't sheltered from actual pointed questions by censorious hyperwoke platforms:
Questions for Vivian Strange:
1) Are you accusing Lola, Jane, Elaine and Aziel of being hypergamous for turning down your sexual advances? Are you accusing them of being hypergamous because of capitalism? Aren't you yourself hypergamous and ambitious for wanting to have sex with (bigger) Youtubers? Do you insist that if it weren't for capitalism, no one would have any sexual standards or ambitions, and everyone would just get with everyone regardless of rank or class? Do you understand the social function of distinction outside of a capitalist context?
2) Why did you tell Jane that you didn't love Serafina anymore, only to go ahead and marry Serafina right after you were called out? ("My girlfriend is in California and Vivian told me she intended on moving there within a year or two with Lola, which gave me false hope. She told me that she had full intention to leave her girlfriend as she no longer was in love with her. I felt bad for her partner but ultimately chose to respect Vivian’s established boundaries and not get to know her as it was what Vivian called a conflict of interest.") Why did you bar your friends from meeting Serafina? Did Serafina know that you meant to move to LA with Lola?
3) Why do you claim to be Roma when you've admitted on your now deleted Letterboxd reviews that you aren't Roma and, to quote your words, "not a part of the [Roma] community"? Why did you use the Roma flag in the background of your videos? Are you doing this just to piss off Tali by appropriating an ethnic identity that isn't yours to claim?
4) According to the Google Doc, Elaine attempted suicide twice because of something you said. What did you say to Elaine that drove them suicidal? Were you made aware of these two suicide attempts and the fact that you apparently prompted them by either Jane or Elaine after they happened? Why did you continue to agitate Elaine after the first suicide attempt?
5) Why do you insist against all evidence that all trans people are bisexual or are supposed to be bisexual?
6) Why do you insist against all evidence that all queer people are non-monogamous or are supposed to be non-monogamous?
7) Why did you attempt to trick an adolescent into attending a queer sex club, without warning them in advance that this was the kind of club you were taking them to? Why did you attempt to take them to a queer sex show yet again after they already told you they didn't feel comfortable attending such an establishment?
8) Jane said in the Google Doc testimony of you, quote: "Vivian would feign respect for our boundaries, but to her, a “no” only meant a “not now.”.". Why do you insist that Jane is wrong in describing you as someone who won't take no for an answer? If you apparently think that you can use anarchist ideology to convince people to change their sexual preferences, doesn't that literally make you someone who won't take no for an answer?
9) Lola said in her testimony that you told her something so deeply disturbing, she decided she no longer wanted to be your friend: "It was also around this time that she revealed to me some personal beliefs that I found frankly odious. The way she talked about her girlfriend and Jane in particular made me deeply uncomfortable. I planned to distance myself from her when we were done working at the theater.". This was something you had told Lola before the incident at her house where she permanently ended your friendship. What did you tell Lola that disturbed her so much?
10) Did you accuse Lola Sebastian of dressing up just to sexually arouse you? Do you think women only dress up just to sexually arouse everyone around them? Do you still believe that if you get aroused from the way someone dress, they somehow have an obligation to cater to your sexual whims because they "provoked" your arousal? How is you making such accusations against your former best friend not the literal definition of rapey?
11) If you only want to have sex with people who share your anarchist principles, then why did you lust after all these people who very obviously aren't anarchists and do not share your political or relational beliefs? Did Lola, Jane, Elaine or Aziel ever identify themselves to you as anarchist? Why expect these people to be anarchist or even your own flavour of anarchist, if they never identified themselves as such?
12) Why did Jane describe the relationship to you as almost like joining a cult in its inception stage? ("In a way I felt like I was being indoctrinated into what could only be described as a cult in its inception stage") Did you try to force Jane into becoming an anarchist? Did you punish Jane for refusing to become an anarchist?
13) You quote Crimethinc a lot, but Crimethinc is very controversial in anarchist circles, in fact a lot of anarchists themselves do not like Crimethinc as evidenced by your own comment section), so why are you using Crimethinc as an "appeal to authority" instead of articulating your own ideas in your own words? Do people have to read Crimethinc just to be around you as humans?
14) In her Bsky thread, Lola quoted a message that you sent to "someone"* where you insisted that Tali wouldn't care if you and Lola slept in the same bed together. Tali's tweets about you suggest otherwise and suggest that Tali very much would've objected to that. Were you deliberately lying to Jane when you said that Tali wouldn't mind?
* If anyone hasn't seen what I'm referring to here, this is the screenshot of a DM from Vivian to "someone" that Lola shared on Bsky:
15) Why did you insist to Jane that Lola should "just" overcome her rape trauma to sleep in the same bed with you? Do you still not comprehend how shockingly cruel and entitled this demand sounds?
16) Why did you call Lola a "bitch" for refusing to sleep in the same bed with you? Why are you weaponizing a friend's rape trauma to be so cruel and demeaning towards her? Is you addressing a victim of rape as a "bitch" not ample evidence of your own sadism, pornsickness and toxic masculinity, no matter how "feminine" you claim to "feel"?
17) In the same Discord message, you said that you would've dumped Lola if she was your girlfriend and didn't agree to sleep with you on the very same night upon meeting you. You said this in reference to Lola confiding to you that she, due to her trauma, had to wait a day before feeling comfortable to sleep in the same bed with Tali when they first met IRL. Tali apparently didn't mind to wait a day for Lola to feel comfortable, but you insisted that Lola taking her time to get to a headspace where she felt safe around Tali was somehow Lola being "abusive" towards Tali, doing "a shitty thing". Do you understand how utterly warped and, yes, manipulative you are being here? Tali clearly did not feel "abused" for being made to wait for a single day, so how the fuck are you projecting your own impatience onto someone else? Have you literally never been in a relationship that wasn't a "hook-up" and immediately sexual upon the very first meeting? Have you literally never experienced any form of courtship ever in your life?
18) According to my own timeline of what led up to the incident on Oct 13th 2023, you were working on a video about the Saw franchise at the time (a video that did come out later but was DMCAed in a lot of territories, so I guess some of your viewers might not have seen it). You were going to spend the weekend watching Saw movies with Lola at her house for the sake of your Saw video. In addition to this, you and Lola had worked on a new premiering show at her mom's theater on that very same day (I have the flyer for this show, I didn't post it here because Lola is on it under her real name, though you are listed on it as "Vivian Strange"). Why did you never mention any of this additional context when you pointed out that Lola was "nervous" around you? What if Lola was just "nervous" about the premiere, or because she dreaded the prospect of spending a whole weekend watching Saw and discussing movies with you after an already stressful workday? This was also after Oct 7th and the start of the War in Ghaza, so did you ever consider that perhaps you yourself were agitated over the war, and it was your own agitation that rubbed off on Lola making her nervous to be around you? You're trying to make it seem like Lola had no reason to be nervous around you, like her nervousness came out of nowhere and you just had to interrogate her incessantly about it, but my own timeline suggests that Lola had ample reasons to be nervous around you, and one of those reasons was likely you yourself and your own agitating response to the emerging war.
19) What did you mean when you told Jane and Elaine to "do whatever feels good in the moment"? ("She would essentially encourage the worst out of me by encouraging me and Jane to just do whatever feels good in the moment. She would encourage my bad behavior and celebrate it by saying I should do more.") It seems a lot of their [Elaine and Jane] issues with you stem from you telling them this, so what did you specifically mean when you told them to "do whatever feels good"? Were you encouraging them to be hedonistic? Even at the expense of others or themselves?
20) In the Google Doc Jane accused you of being "transactional". ("She hates anyone who does not give her what she craves-- love, attention, adoration, sex, drugs, etc. even if she previously adored the person. She views everything as transactional and can't process the idea that some actions come from the heart.") You appeared to vaguely respond to this accusation in the Livestream you've now deleted by saying that you always saw Youtube as a job. However, Jane wasn't just a Youtuber you associated with professionally, but someone you yourself described as your "best friend" and as someone you associated with off-Youtube. So, are you transactional towards your friends?
21) Why did you tell Jane "I'd go monogamous for you"? ("At times she would even say things such as “I would go monogamous for you” to Jane, which is something she has not even extended to her own partner.") You're obviously not monogamous, not even now that you're married to Serafina, so why did you tell Jane this? How can you deny that this is plainly manipulative and you deliberately lying to people just to seduce them with things you think they want to hear?
22) Why did you tell Jane to move in with you in Portland after Jane told you about going to California to be with Elaine? ("I caught Vivian in the midst of gaslighting as she wouldn't accept the fact that Elaine and I finally worked out all of our problems (mostly caused by her) and started saying I didn't really want to move to California. It was at this point that I called her out for gaslighting me and I was existentially horrified as our friendship developed as we had the goal of moving there.") Youtuber Soulbunni whom you've Livestream-interviewed on your channel later moved to Portland, so was that also at your behest? Why are you trying to bring all these Youtubers to Portland with you? Why don't you ever leave Portland to visit anyone where they are?
23) Why did Serafina write a script about gender swapped brother-sister teenagers where one of the teens is called "Sebastian"? Lola has a brother, so was this script inspired or prompted by Lola and her brother? (There's another character in that script with Lola's brother's name, I won't mention which because I don't want to doxx Lola's brother) Were you and Serafina using Lola and her brother as gooning material for your own personal fantasies about transgender teenagers? Is this the reason you didn't want Lola to meet Serafina? Do you and Serafina often goon together while gender-swapping people you know personally and imagining them as teenagers?
24) You apparently refer to yourself as an "ex-creator" now. If you're an "ex-creator", are you also a destroyer now?
25) You insisted you've never touched Lola in her sleep. Why would Lola make this up about you, given how angry you apparently were about her not wanting to sleep in the same bed with you? Are you accusing Lola of hallucinating this or what? Isn't this corroborated by the fact that you took a picture of Aziel while resting on your couch? Do these two incidents not establish a pattern of you taking advantage of people while they're sleeping?
He will obviously never answer these questions but this is what a real Q&A would be like.
He would melt into a puddle if anyone ever questioned him about his bullshit like this.
