No woman dresses up like a cat. A GIRL will, but no woman. That's why you see all these cute little 20-year-olds doing it on tik tok. Because they're stupid and perky and life hasn't ruined them yet.
A woman in her 40s especially an Asian one will fucking negotiate sex with you. It's like you're cutting a deal with the prosecutor.
"Okay, so it's settled... you can have 15 minutes of foreplay but 5 minutes of it has to be eating my pussy (with my verbal guidance), the sex has to last at least 5 minutes but no longer than 30, come IN me not ON me I don't feel like cleaning that up, and you get two positions of your choice but I'm not doing more than that because I've been working all day and my back hurts. Oh, and if I'm blowing you at all we're both going to be lying down on the bed because I'm not getting on my knees on a hardwood floor after the fucking day I had"