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How to survive no nut november and end your porn addiction

Blaine Gaven Ross

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Hello onionbros i know some of you atleast are coomers Cough Cough @Empresa i certainly am i try to quit but every time i get such bad anxiety i also have ocd which makes it worse i know its bad for me but i just cannot stop so i want this thread to be somewhat of a coomer support thread somewhere we can share our stories and get over this addiction hell even the pope has struggled with it but i just wanted to start this to get a conversation going
 

Slidey Boi

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I feel you Hogan. I too am no stranger to this issue, and I'm married. I seem to go through phases where I quit for a while, then either (similar to your anxiety) I feel stressed and seek relief, or I feel pent up and physically horny and seek relief. In either case, its usually a physical need that proceeds the porn/masturbation.

So what's the solution? Well, there's no easy answer but there is an answer. The answer is to start with a dopamine detox, just really reduce your exposure to not only porn and masturbation but video games and other screen time. Then, and here's the key, with renewed and reduced sensitivity to normal dopamine from healthy activities, you can find stress relief in other things. The problem with skipping the dopamine detox is no other activities are as stimulating as porn and orgasm.

A dopamine detox can start having noticeable cognitive benefits in 1-3 weeks, on the faster end if you really go cold turkey.

I'm taking up the torch once again, both to better myself and my marriage. I'm getting a jump start and started yesterday. I've failed many times in the past but I'll never stop striving for improvement.

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So what's the solution? Well, there's no easy answer but there is an answer. The answer is to start with a dopamine detox, just really reduce your exposure to not only porn and masturbation but video games and other screen time. Then, and here's the key, with renewed and reduced sensitivity to normal dopamine from healthy activities, you can find stress relief in other things. The problem with skipping the dopamine detox is no other activities are as stimulating as porn and orgasm.
Came here to post this ^

Another issue is that coomers, similar to alcoholics, will use masturbation as a self-reward for doing ordinary things.
"I'll wash the dishes and reward myself with a beer" "I did 20 push-ups, I'll reward myself by cooming" etc;
This makes breaking the addiction to pornography and masturbation even more difficult because no only are people dopamine fried, they've also conditioned their behavior around their vice which can make it hard to suggest things to distract away from the urges to engage in the behavior. I know personally lmao, because when I have to do any cleaning I say to myself "alright I'll clean for 30 minutes then go have a cigarette" to give myself something to look forward to while doing boring stuff I don't like to do; but it really is imperative to, at the same time a person is detoxing from dopamine to start instilling other habits and other hobbies and other activities otherwise they'll end up relapsing when they get to the end of the tunnel and realize they have nothing to do anymore.

In my opinion. Video games are not a hobby. They're a fun activity, but they're not something people should associate as actual hobbies; however... making video games is definitely something that could be considered a hobby. It's just my opinion but a hobby is something that we engage in for fun, that we end up with something at the end of a project. Sitting down for 2 hours to play a video game generally doesn't accomplish anything; and I think while trying to kick a bad habit it's important to see real life results and be able to hold something in your hands and say "whoa, this thing didn't exist yesterday and now it does because I made it exist"; it'll give you something to focus to distract from the withdrawal, and it'll give you something tangible that proves that your efforts in doing something will be rewarded.
That's just my two cents on the matter though.

Not every hobby has to be expensive. I like making self-enclosed ecosystems with stuff I find on nature hikes.
It costs basically a mason jar, which are like 2 bucks. It gets you outside, it gets you out in nature, you get to learn about different plants, mosses, bugs/insects, etc and it's fun to put them together and build a little mini world for any of the bugs you bring home. Isopods, beetles, snails, maybe a spider or a centipede or two.
If you do it right they'll last years.

That's just a suggestion though, there are plenty of other hobbies that cost next to no money
 

Blaine Gaven Ross

annoying skitzo pedo groomer troon
SpergCage Resident
Came here to post this ^

Another issue is that coomers, similar to alcoholics, will use masturbation as a self-reward for doing ordinary things.
"I'll wash the dishes and reward myself with a beer" "I did 20 push-ups, I'll reward myself by cooming" etc;
This makes breaking the addiction to pornography and masturbation even more difficult because no only are people dopamine fried, they've also conditioned their behavior around their vice which can make it hard to suggest things to distract away from the urges to engage in the behavior. I know personally lmao, because when I have to do any cleaning I say to myself "alright I'll clean for 30 minutes then go have a cigarette" to give myself something to look forward to while doing boring stuff I don't like to do; but it really is imperative to, at the same time a person is detoxing from dopamine to start instilling other habits and other hobbies and other activities otherwise they'll end up relapsing when they get to the end of the tunnel and realize they have nothing to do anymore.

In my opinion. Video games are not a hobby. They're a fun activity, but they're not something people should associate as actual hobbies; however... making video games is definitely something that could be considered a hobby. It's just my opinion but a hobby is something that we engage in for fun, that we end up with something at the end of a project. Sitting down for 2 hours to play a video game generally doesn't accomplish anything; and I think while trying to kick a bad habit it's important to see real life results and be able to hold something in your hands and say "whoa, this thing didn't exist yesterday and now it does because I made it exist"; it'll give you something to focus to distract from the withdrawal, and it'll give you something tangible that proves that your efforts in doing something will be rewarded.
That's just my two cents on the matter though.

Not every hobby has to be expensive. I like making self-enclosed ecosystems with stuff I find on nature hikes.
It costs basically a mason jar, which are like 2 bucks. It gets you outside, it gets you out in nature, you get to learn about different plants, mosses, bugs/insects, etc and it's fun to put them together and build a little mini world for any of the bugs you bring home. Isopods, beetles, snails, maybe a spider or a centipede or two.
If you do it right they'll last years.

That's just a suggestion though, there are plenty of other hobbies that cost next to no money
Both very interesting posts as an update im on day 3 and most of my anxiety is gone i had some but after today i should be good i just have to avoid all threads that involve women or nudes just that little spark and i can not get it off my mind its like im lock focused intill i fail so i will avoid that and as far as hobbies go i am trying to learn html to code a website while its kinda hard to stay motivated ive already learned some basic stuff maybe one day i will reach the technical genius of kengle
 

MittyMitoriLuckyDucky

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Hello onionbros i know some of you atleast are coomers Cough Cough @Empresa i certainly am i try to quit but every time i get such bad anxiety i also have ocd which makes it worse i know its bad for me but i just cannot stop so i want this thread to be somewhat of a coomer support thread somewhere we can share our stories and get over this addiction hell even the pope has struggled with it but i just wanted to start this to get a conversation going
Become a christian , pray to God.
Stay away from things that make you think about porn and make you think about thoughts wanting to fap.
When thinking about fapping take a shower , go outside or play a game.
Stay away from discord and other possible `leftist` websites you go on.
 
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