hezekiah
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Cheating is not enough to leave a man says a Nigerian woman
A Nigerian woman is currently trending after posting a video on X (Twitter) where she confidently argued that cheating alone is not a good enough reason for a woman to leave a man.
Her argument is basically: as long as the man provides, cares, and shows emotional support, then infidelity shouldn’t automatically end the relationship.
Naturally, this set off a war online.
Main Reactions
1. Some people agreed and called her “realistic.”
2. Most women called her a pick-me / self-hating doormat.
3. Others pointed out that “all men cheat” is just a lazy excuse for bad behavior.
This has now turned into one of those gender-war debates where people start defending cheating as “normal” and pretending monogamy is unrealistic.
Discussion
Her argument is basically: as long as the man provides, cares, and shows emotional support, then infidelity shouldn’t automatically end the relationship.
She also doubled down with the classic cope:“You all are going to hate what I’m about to say, but I’ll say it anyway…
Cheating is not enough to leave that man.”
So in her mind, women should stop expecting loyalty and instead focus on “how he treats you” and what he provides.“All men cheat.”
Naturally, this set off a war online.
Main Reactions
1. Some people agreed and called her “realistic.”
2. Most women called her a pick-me / self-hating doormat.
3. Others pointed out that “all men cheat” is just a lazy excuse for bad behavior.
This has now turned into one of those gender-war debates where people start defending cheating as “normal” and pretending monogamy is unrealistic.