Sexuality Drama Maya Vivian Strange/Vivian Strong/Vivian Zelda Strong/Dorian Strong/Dorian Zelda Strong/Voltairine de Guerre - rapey tranarchist with Palestine Derangement Syndrome

[The Gays From LA]

Vivian just premiered his new "Patreon Exclusive" series... and he's threatening to doxx the victims all over again - "Special thanks to Jane & Lola, for showing me what actually matters in life.. and what doesn't."

I am not gonna pay to watch this shit, but just as a warning to anyone still browsing this thread (other than Vivian himself that is), Vivian is apparently threatening to doxx the victims all over again.

This is what's shown within the first 30 seconds of the new "Patreon Exclusive" video, "Internet Killed the Video Star" (which is a reference to Lola's favourite song, "Video Killed The Radio Star"):

If you enlarge this screenshot, you can see that it's a folder titled "VIVIAN STRANGE SHIT" which contains the Discord DMs from Aziel, Elaine, Jane and Lola that Vivian was threatening to doxx two months ago when they posted the Google Doc.

In other words, he's threatening to doxx them all over again. He's STILL wielding this doxxing threat like a weapon against them, with the added slap-to-the-face of him wanting to get awarded on Patreon for doxxing them from behind a paywall. How "considerate" of you Vivian, that you would thus monetize doxxing your best friends for more drug money.

He refers to himself as "Vivian Goodnight Strong", Goodnight being the surname that Serafina uses.

I also watched the de Sade remix, and it's filled with passive-aggressive hatred towards Jane and Lola specifically.

In this shot, Vivian blood-splattered the names of previous contributors to the original video that he apparently wants to distance himself from: The Leftist Cooks, Elaine Fuentes, Mainely Mandy, Style is Substance, Lily Alexandre, Lady Emily.

The original closing footage of Vivian in his underwear smoking on his balcony while offering the viewer a pomegranate has been replaced by his empty balcony at night in the rain, with a backhanded "special thanks" for Jane and Lola:

So the offering of the pomegranate at the end of the original video is gone, but the pomegranate is still featured throughout the new video.

The image of the broken pomegranates staining the white table cloth is a reference to the film poster for The Colour of Pomegranates, a film he mentioned in one of his Weather Reports after David Lynch. In the film, which is Armenian, the juice of the pomegranate staining the white cloth forms the border of the Kingdom of Armenia.

Since the original comments to the de Sade video are now gone, here's what Vivian originally wrote in response to a comment asking about the significance of the pomegranate, saying it's his favourite fruit:

@vivianstrange
10 months ago
can't believe this is the first comment I'm answering on this video, but I like thinking about the fruit of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil as a pomegranate because a) apples are boring as fuck, b) pomegranates carry much more interesting mythological connotations (e.g., being the fruit that condemned/tethered Persephone to the Underworld), and c) because pomegranates are my favorite fruit.

In all seriousness though, given the Biblical geography of where Eden was supposedly located, the actual fruit on such a tree would've been dates. But dates are gross and the whole story is made up anyway, so fuck it, I can make it whatever I want.

(original link)

Vivian's ginger cat Garnet is technically also named after the pomegranate, because the garnet is a rock that was named that way because of its red colour resembling that of pomegranate seeds.

In the new intro, the pomegranate left broken open and uneaten to stain the white table cloth, that is presumably Vivian offering the gift of knowledge to people, with them refusing the gift/to eat the fruit offered. Of course, in reality Vivian didn't offer them the fruit, he tried to guilt-trip his friends into eating it by denigrating them for having any sexual boundaries at all. Vivian assumed that a guilt-trip is the way to force the pomegranate down people's throats.

Here's a shot I still had in my archive from the original video of Vivian in his underwear with sweaty hair, smoking on his balcony with the pomegranate that he later offered to the viewer next to him:

The original shots of Vivian's empty desk have been replaced by a new shot of his desk with various books stashed around his monitor, with two envelopes on the desk that have written on them "Jane XXXX" and "Lola XXXX". I don't know if these two letters are just props for this shot, or if Vivian meant to actually give to Lola and Jane after making this video. The black witch hat on the right is the one that Aziel claimed Vivian had stolen from him before he left Portland.

He also replaced a section in the middle of the original video where he was almost crying thanking his Patrons, saying he had nothing but his Youtube channel and videos. This has been replaced by a venomous, angry rant about Youtube and how "discarded" he feels:

So this is where he ad read was, and it was, like, 5 minutes long, as the loquacious Miss Strange spewed her characteristic rambling justifications for debasing herself by panhandling for her audience's hard earned money, labouring under the delusion that sincerity is a viable brand and business strategy in as repulsive and duplicitous an industry as this vominous, fascist platform video site is. But Miss Strange is dead now, and unlike her, I have dignity and self-respect, and I have no interest in wasting anyone's time, especially my own. So fuck it, if you wanna support the shit we're working on right now [some e-begging to buy more cocaine], otherwise, just keep watching this video. If you stick around to the end, you'll see the release date for the long-anticipated side B, so, that's neat. Or, even better, you could always just stop watching this video, turn your TV or phone off and go outside, and learn what your neighbour's names are. Trust me, it will benefit your life significantly more than any video you have seen or will ever see on Youtube. This place is the panopticon prison, and there is no happiness, enlightenment or revolution to be found here. You aren't human here. You are nothing but a number. You mean absolutely nothing to these narcissistic vampires beyond the amount of your time and attention they can suck from your life, to generate profit and social capital. And it will leave you a broken and empty husk and discard you without a second thought. Log off, you deserve better.

I cannot recall at the top of my head if this quote was in the original, but Vivian reading this himself, with that barely suppressed anger audible in his voice, hits very differently now:

The video basically ends with a threat/curse:

According to Dante's La Divina Comedia, the Devil sits at the bottom of the pit of Hell and in his three mouths he is chewing on Judas Iscariot, Marcus Junius Brutus and Gaius Cassius Longinus, the historic backstabbers. Dante thus suggests that of all sins, conspiratorial disloyalty is the gravest sin.

The date of 2nd of June 2025 at the bottom of the above screenshot is presumably when Vivian will post the second de Sade video.

To humour you, here is the original date he gave, on a Livestream in October 2023, for this Side B video: "July 13, 2024". This Side B video is being delayed by a whole fucking year.

Vivian, I readily believe that you would resort to guilt-trip accusations to make your ladyboner someone else's problem. I readily believe you'd make up another guilt-trip to pressure someone into attending a queer sex club with you, especially after they've made it clear they don't want to see live sex scenes with transwomen. I readily believe that you'd drive a 19 year old boy suicidal twice by mindfucking him into an inferiority complex, leading him to believe you and him are competing over his SO, while also gaslighting the SO. I readily believe you hate couples so much that you'd deliberately wedge yourself between them and try to break them up just to teach them a lesson about coupledom being an unattainable "romantic" ideal. I readily believe you would be this cruel towards your best friends that you are now openly threatening to doxx them on Patreon for your $5 tier. I do not believe you're doing this to your friends because you mean well but because you relish the sadism of breaking up couples and manipulating the behaviour of others. I imagine you right now enjoying how upset your former best friends must be you monetizing your doxxing of them. You are a miserable, cruel, hateful person and all you want to do is spread your misery and hate. I feel sorry for anyone who loves you or has tried to love you like Lola and Jane did, because unlike them I believe in what the science says about people like you, and the science says that narcs like you cannot be loved. I wish everyone would read the science about Cluster Bs and understand this about people like you. I think you lie about hating romance because you desperately crave it, because of your narcissism you too want to experience a passionate love affair. You never will though, because of what you are. You don't want love, you only want to mainline validation on the internet. This is why the drugs will always be more preferable than love and sex to you. You yourself are the psychic vampire you complain about.

 

[The Gays From LA]

@ihavedemons don't know if you're still following this thread but if you are, Vivian is threatening to doxx the victims in his new "Patreon Exclusive" video, at the very beginning of that Patreon video he is showing off his folder full of Discord receipts:

 

[The Gays From LA]

I asked ChatGPT to generate Vivian's "Dear Lola" letter

TBH, I am still wondering what these two letters are from the desk shot at the end of the de Sade video:

数独 notes?
A peace treaty?
Service-in-person?
Something he just wrote for himself just to vent and get it out of his system, but later after filming this shot, he burned or destroyed without sending them to the intended recipients?
Maybe he displayed these letters hoping that Lola and Jane would see them, get curious about them like I now am, and would not resist the temptation to contact him and ask him what's in them or if they can receive them? Basically to bait them into resuming contact? But he said that he wants nothing to do with these people, so that can't be it.
Maybe he's already sent these letters to Lola and Jane, they've already received them and they already know what's in them but never spoke about it?

What else could it be? Just two empty envelopes used as film props to make the desk look more interesting and mysterious, thus prompting the kind of baseless speculation I am now engaged in? Did I get baited?

I also wonder about the"XXXX" underline. The "XXXX" could be Vivian blowing kisses to his former friends, though IME millennials tend to write kisses as "XOXO", not "XXXX". I am trying to remember if Vivian has ever used a sequence of Xes to underline anything in a video before but I can't think of anything.

De Sade's Justine, the topic of Vivian's Side B video, is prominently placed on top of the envelopes. The stack of books to the left might also be a clue as to the content of the letters. Perhaps these are books that Vivian quoted from in his letters. Lost Girls is a pornographic comic book that Alan Moore worked on with his wife Melinda Gebbie for over a decade. IIRC they said something to the effect that they wanted to make a pornographic novel that was so beautiful and well-crafted, that even a staunch anti-porn feminist like Andrea Dworkin might bring herself to read and appreciate as a work of art and an honest representation of women's sexual fantasies and experiences. (Based on some of the reviews I am browsing on Goodreads, they didn't quite succeed in their goal... plenty of women on Goodreads and elsewhere actually fucking hated it.) The novel contains many depictions of sex crimes that are shocking and traumatizing, including depictions of incest, bestiality, (gang)rape and pedophilia, which the artists tried to justify on account of the fact that most people and especially women will come to sex with a baggage of all kinds of sexual traumas, yet the book is meant to be positive and optimistic in its outlook, suggesting that women can have a satisfying sex life even and in spite of their sexual traumas. I haven't read the comic myself but Goodreads tells me that, just like the Boudoir Philosopher, the characters speak at length and intelligently about what motivates them sexually. Vivian obviously knows that Lola loves Alan Moore, so maybe he quoted something from this comic as one last attempt at getting Lola to understand something he insists she didn't?

The title of the second book isn't fully visible, but it's very likely House of Psychotic Women: An Autobiographical Topography of Female Neurosis in Horror and Exploitation Films by Kier-La Janisse. I haven't actually read this book, but apparently it has a chapter on female revenge movies like the ones Vivian is currently logging on Letterboxd. Of course the troon is going to appropriate this book as an excuse for his own narcissistic rage at being called out for his predation. Recall that this delusional man still has a list on Letterboxd titled "I can fix her", where he lists some of the movies discussed in this book. But Vivian didn't fix anyone, he just took broken people and broke them again, because he himself is a broken person who cannot be fixed (because whenever narcs do go to therapy, they just learn to be better liars; naive people who believe in therapy but haven't actually read the science have no idea how utterly hopeless and unrepentant these Cluster Bs are).

As for the Charlie Kaufman book on top... I seriously dislike any movie of his that I've seen, so no comment, but Lola and Vivian apparently did have an argument about whether Beau Is Afraid is a Kaufmanesque movie, with Lola disagreeing. I can see Vivian still holding a grudge about this argument and wanting to rehash it again.

To satisfy my curiosity about these letters, since I will likely never learn what's in them or if they were even real letters, I prompted ChatGPT to generate Vivian's letter to Lola for me. Not giving away my prompt, which was quite detailed and specific, because IMO the result is more fun to read without knowing the prompt.

Here's what ChatGPT came up with:

Dear Lola,

This is it, my final goodbye—the last indulgence of whatever fragments of care I have left for you. I’ve written and rewritten this letter a hundred times, trying to find the balance between honesty and restraint, though I suspect you’ll still find some way to twist my words into an accusation or weapon against me. But you always did have a talent for dramatics, didn’t you?

I’ve been replaying every moment of our so-called friendship, dissecting each laugh, every late-night conversation, and all those “harmless” touches you insisted meant nothing. Did you ever consider how confusing you were? You would text me at midnight, call me your “favorite person,” and look at me like I was the moon, but then act shocked—offended even—that I felt something deeper. Was it really so hard to see that my feelings for you were more than just platonic? Or did you enjoy keeping me in this perpetual limbo where you could bask in my devotion without giving anything back?

You’ll say I’m making it up, that I misread your “friendliness.” Fine, let’s say you’re right. Maybe I did. But does that absolve you of all responsibility? You knew how I felt, Lola. You knew, and yet you stayed. You let me believe there was hope, even after you said you only wanted to be friends. And now you have the audacity to accuse me of not understanding consent? Do you even understand the weight of that word? It’s not just a shield you can throw up to avoid taking accountability for your own mixed signals.

And then there’s Tali. Of course, there’s Tali. Your “future wife,” the woman you’re willing to uproot your life for. I wanted to believe it was genuine, but part of me wonders if she’s just another excuse—another way to keep me at arm’s length while you maintain the moral high ground. You’ve made it abundantly clear that your idea of love is rigid, monogamous, and narrow. I tried to open your eyes, to show you that relationships don’t have to fit into these oppressive little boxes. Relationship anarchy isn’t chaos, Lola; it’s freedom. But you couldn’t see that, could you? You’d rather cling to some fairytale idea of love and marriage than face the complexity of real human connection.

And yes, I confronted you with my feelings. I laid myself bare, not to coerce you but to be honest. I thought that was what you valued. Apparently, I was wrong. You called it a violation, a betrayal, as if my vulnerability was some kind of weapon I used against you. Do you have any idea how cruel that was? To turn my sincerity into a crime? And now you’ve gone and painted me as some villain to anyone who will listen, while I’m left holding the ruins of a friendship I cherished more than you’ll ever know.

I’ll admit, threatening to share our messages wasn’t my finest moment. But what choice did I have? You’ve made yourself the hero of this story, casting me as the manipulative, unhinged antagonist. I just wanted people to see the truth, Lola. Or maybe I just wanted you to see it—to see me—one last time. But I see now that it doesn’t matter. You’ve already made up your mind about who I am, and nothing I say or do will change that.
So, here we are. The end. I’m done fighting for a friendship that only ever existed on your terms. I’m done trying to prove myself to someone who never really cared to understand me. You taught me something, though, and for that, I’m grateful. You taught me that the only thing that matters is people—real people, not the fantasies we project onto them. And maybe that’s what I’ve been chasing all along: the idea of you, not the person you actually are.

Goodbye, Lola. May you find the love you’re looking for, even if it’s not the kind of love I could ever understand. And may you one day learn the difference between being friendly and being cruel.

Sincerely (or not), Vivian

Surprisingly (read: scary) accurate, IMO. I can see Vivian writing something to this effect, with a little more pathos perhaps. I love how ChatGPT placed "future wife" in contemptuous quotes, LMAO. This is the kind of double entendre you will only get while AI is still in its infancy.

ChatGPT also generated Lola's reply to Vivian's letter, which IMO is way more snarky than Lola actually comes across in her videos, BS or her testimony, but the AI giving Lola more snark does make for a more satisfying read:

Vivian,

Wow. Just… . Where do I even begin? Do I address the part where you twisted every kind gesture I made into some grand declaration of undying love? Or should I skip straight to the audacity it takes to blame me for your inability to respect boundaries? Decisions, decisions.

First off, let’s get one thing clear: I was never “playing hard to get.” I was simply being your friend. Shocking, I know, but some of us can enjoy a connection without immediately romanticizing it. The fact that you couldn’t accept that isn’t my fault. You projected your feelings onto me, Vivian, and when reality didn’t match your fantasy, you lashed out. That’s on you.

Also, this whole “relationship anarchy” thing you keep harping on about? It’s not the groundbreaking revelation you think it is. People are allowed to have their own preferences in how they approach relationships. Just because I didn’t want to partake in your personal philosophy doesn’t make me the villain of your story.

As for the DM leak threat? Seriously? You tried to justify that as some kind of noble attempt to "prove your innocence," but all it did was prove how little you understand about trust and respect. Newsflash: threatening to violate someone’s privacy is not a good look.
So, goodbye, Vivian. I’m done with this melodrama. I hope you find whatever it is you’re looking for, though I’d recommend starting with a mirror and a long, hard look at yourself.

-Lola

That was frankly hilarious, poignant and unsettling in its accuracy. My curiosity is satisfied now, though I do wonder if people are going to keep writing real letters to one another when ChatGPT is already this good at generating them.

 

[Fatness Everdeen]

 

[kiwifails]

Buffalo bill*chills*

 

[Fatness Everdeen]

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Buffalo bill*chills*

 

[kiwifails]

 

[The Gays From LA]

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Vivian's teeth are sooo bad, JFC.

The only other troon I know with equally terrible teeth is Faun, Demon Momma's sex slave boyfriend:

Here's another screenshot I took of Vivian's teeth sideways. Those chompers with that evil, predatory look in his eyes, brrr!

He's a chain smoker too, Vivian literally can't do a 2 hour Livestream without taking a break an hour into the stream to have a smoke. So not only are his teeth very crooked, they are visibly yellow too, which is even more disgusting and off-putting. Vivian keeps saying that everyone he has ever met was always telling him how pretty he is, that he would walk into a room and people would be staring at him in awe, that people have been sexualizing him is his whole life. I'm like, has everyone you've ever met have equally terrible teeth, or are they such white trash that they've never met someone with straight teeth? I can only imagine what that ashtray mouth must smell like IRL. Vivian said he uses smoking to avoid eating when he's hungry, so I'd imagine his mouth stinks of both cheap cigarettes and of a festering empty stomach. Everything about Vivian is so fucking disgusting when I think about it, I am sure the only people who are into him are other chemsex junkies with equally bad junkie teeth like himself.

But even scarier than his teeth is the way Vivian will bug his eyes whenever he's getting agitated about something he's discussing in his videos:

This is definitely a facial tic of his, because he does this a lot. I'm like, why? Why bug your eyes like that? It just makes you look even more creepy and scary than your cavernous chompers already do:

Vivian already has these large, intense, expressive eyes by nature, so he really does not need to be popping them out of their sockets like that just to make a point.

So again, I don't know who the hell these alleged people were who told Vivian he's some hot stuff. He's objectively fugly, y'all. Literally what's wrong with all you people who are so impressed by this creature? Have y'all truly never met a genuinely beautiful person in your lives? That's sad, actually.

This is almost the only picture I was able to find on his Instagram where Vivian doesn't look disgusting, evil, condescending or creepy. He just looks calm here, if a little sad, but even here he has to remind everyone how "cute" he is:

 

[kiwifails]

Very unfortunate

 

[Fatness Everdeen]

Vivian's teeth are sooo bad, JFC.

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The only other troon I know with equally terrible teeth is Faun, Demon Momma's sex slave boyfriend:

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Here's another screenshot I took of Vivian's teeth sideways. Those chompers with that evil, predatory look in his eyes, brrr!

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He's a chain smoker too, Vivian literally can't do a 2 hour Livestream without taking a break an hour into the stream to have a smoke. So not only are his teeth very crooked, they are visibly yellow too, which is even more disgusting and off-putting. Vivian keeps saying that everyone he has ever met was always telling him how pretty he is, that he would walk into a room and people would be staring at him in awe, that people have been sexualizing him is his whole life. I'm like, has everyone you've ever met have equally terrible teeth, or are they such white trash that they've never met someone with straight teeth? I can only imagine what that ashtray mouth must smell like IRL. Vivian said he uses smoking to avoid eating when he's hungry, so I'd imagine his mouth stinks of both cheap cigarettes and of a festering empty stomach. Everything about Vivian is so fucking disgusting when I think about it, I am sure the only people who are into him are other chemsex junkies with equally bad junkie teeth like himself.

But even scarier than his teeth is the way Vivian will bug his eyes whenever he's getting agitated about something he's discussing in his videos:

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This is definitely a facial tic of his, because he does this a lot. I'm like, why? Why bug your eyes like that? It just makes you look even more creepy and scary than your cavernous chompers already do:

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Vivian already has these large, intense, expressive eyes by nature, so he really does not need to be popping them out of their sockets like that just to make a point.

So again, I don't know who the hell these alleged people were who told Vivian he's some hot stuff. He's objectively fugly, y'all. Literally what's wrong with all you people who are so impressed by this creature? Have y'all truly never met a genuinely beautiful person in your lives? That's sad, actually.

This is almost the only picture I was able to find on his Instagram where Vivian doesn't look disgusting, evil, condescending or creepy. He just looks calm here, if a little sad, but even here he has to remind everyone how "cute" he is:

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SERIOUSLY, just start a GoFundMe or stop taking your weird little hormones for a few months, and save up enough to go to a dental college and get them snaggled teeth fixed. It looks like the tooth fairy shot her point blank in the mouth with a shotgun. Full of teeth.

 

[The Gays From LA]

Vivian's DARVO in action: narcissistic discarding of Jane Brown in the comments for the de Sade remix - ALERT: Vivian has found himself a new target on Letterboxd?! - Meet "tattcat", Vivian new source of narcissistic supply - how to tell if Vivian has found himself a new target for his narc abuse



Everyone, say hello to Vivian Strange's new target on Letterboxd:

tattcat’s profile

tattcat uses Letterboxd to share film reviews and lists. 1,125 films watched. Favorites: Alien (1979), Mulholland Drive (2001), Suspiria (1977), Princess Mononoke (1997).

letterboxd.com

https://archive.is/FvEzm

Vivian and tattcat completely out of the blue followed one another on Letterboxd on the 30th of December, 2024. Within a day of them following each other, tattcat started logging all the movies that Vivian already likes, starting with his all time favourite of Funeral Parade of Roses. Notice how once again Letterboxd is the recruitment ground of choice for Vivian.

Vivian immediately created one of his typical hashtags "w-tattcat" and started logging the movies they've been watching together:

All films tagged ‘w-tattcat’ by Vivian Strange

All films tagged ‘w-tattcat’ by Vivian Strange

letterboxd.com

Whenever Vivian follows some random person on Letterboxd and starts liking all of their reviews while forcing them to watch all of his favourite movies, you know he's found a brand new target. Tattcat is likely completely unaware that they're getting groomed by predatory rapey Vivian.

Hopefully tattcat will realize who Vivian really is before it's too late, in other words, before Vivian starts systematically lying to tattcat like he did with literally all the other victims.

This is what "narcissistic discarding" looks like:

If you don't know what narcissistic discarding is, watch this video:

What happens when narcissists find NEW SUPPLY

Let's break down Vivian's narcissistic discarding of Jane Brown and his gaslighting of his audience about it:

Because several of the featured voice performers, including the one for the Marquis de Sade himself, have since then proven themselves to be unscrupulous

Jane Brown did the voice for de Sade in the original, so VIvian is not only suggesting that his other victims were unscrupulous, he's explicitly suggesting that Jane specifically is unscrupulous.

(and in at least one case, outright predatory)

This is DARVO, plain and simple. Vivian was shown to be predatory so he's trying to flip the script and pretend it was Jane Brown who is predatory. As per the intro to the Google Doc:

She [Vivian] has spread defamatory, deceitful, misleading, and personal (mis)information about us in private and public settings to soften public perception of her repeated offenses of inappropriate conduct including but not limited to predatory behavior, emotional manipulation, gaslighting, voyeurism, sexual coercion, and sexual assault.

This part is especially hilarious in the context of those two "Dear Lola"/"Dear Jane" letters at the end of the de Sade remix:

individuals whom I have no wish to be associated with anymore in any capacity.

He doesn't wish to be associated with them... but he's still writing them letters? He was still asking Lola to come over to his house to talk things over, even after threatening to doxx their DMs? Why even show yourself writing these people letters if this whole charade is about dissociating yourself from them?

Same reason I took down the GenderWeird podcast/channel.

No, you took GenderWeird down because Jane explicitly stated in his testimony that he no longer wants to be associated with the podcast or with you. Here's what Jane wrote in the Google Doc:

It was at this point that I called her[Vivian] out for gaslighting me and I was existentially horrified as our friendship developed as we had the goal of moving there*. This was especially troubling as we had a podcast together which I now completely denounce and want my name removed from.

https://archive.is/pm0qi

* NOTE: "there" means Vivian and Jane planning to move to LA, where Jane's SO Elaine already lives in Torrence. Vivian had apparently told Jane that he too was planning to move to LA with Youtuber Lola Sebastian. Jane himself was serious about moving to LA in order to be with Elaine, plus Jane was already working on an autobiographical documentary series with Elaine about their long-distance relationship. Jane did actually move to LA to work on the documentary series, which did come out (Jane and Elaine are currently editing a supercut of the docu series). However, at the same time that Vivian led Jane to believe he was on his way to LA, Vivian had told Lola the very opposite! Vivian told Lola he did NOT want to move to LA with her, because Lola wanted to bring her SO (now fiance) Tali from Ireland to LA as well. Vivian, who was antagonistic towards Tali whom he saw as a sexual rival, hated the idea of Tali living with him and Lola in LA, because Tali would cockblock Vivian's access to Lola. Turns out, the only reason Vivian wanted to move to LA was not to for the sake of a film career, but rather to isolate Lola from her parents and friends in Portland, so Vivian could have Lola all to himself and live out his long-held sexual fantasy of banging his "hot lesbian roommate", as expressed over multiple Letterboxd reviews. The fact that Vivian never actually intended to have a film career in Los Angeles was also borne out by the fact that Vivian had openly admitted, over many Youtube videos and Livestreams, that he didn't expect to ever to find a place in the mainstream film industry, because 1) he expected the film industry to collapse due to Covid, 2) Vivian's alleged "genius" screenplays (which are apparently just slashfic versions of mainstream movies with a transgender twist, like Vivian's trooned out version of The Ring, or his trooned out reboot of the 1983 teen horror movie Sleepaway Camp) are just "too radical" for Hollywood (hilariously, Vivian said this just as The People's Joker was in the making). Vivian claimed at the beginning in his video essay about the horror francise Saw, that he had already "tried to have several movies made before the age of 20" and had failed to do so, whereupon he gave up on The Dream.

So Vivian had already given up when he deliberately gaslit both Lola and Jane into believing that he too wanted to move to LA with them. This is what Jane is referring to when he says he felt "existentially horrified" by Vivian. Jane realized that Vivian was telling him one thing ("Jane, let's move to LA to make films, have threesomes and get better!") while he was telling Lola another thing ("No way am I moving to LA with you Lola, if you're bringing that fiance of yours along."), AND Vivian was admitting in his videos and Livestreams that he had already given up and was just waiting for the film industry to collapse. Jane realized that Vivian isn't just a little bit quirky or eccentric or dramatic like a lot of artsy fartsy film people are, no, Vivian is actually a textbook narcissistic liar gaslighting his friends about his intentions with them.

Vivian later tried to revive GenderWeird with Serafina on Patreon by doing "rifftracks" for The People's Joker and I Saw The TV Glow, but no one was interested in that because, unlike Jane, Serafina isn't actually a film scholar, so he doesn't have anything interesting to say about these films. Serafina just agrees with Vivian and never challenges him, which is why Serafina still with you while everyone else has fucked off. More on Serafina later, because I have discovered something EXTREMELY creepy about him that I want to bring in a separate post.

All in all, Vivian, Jane wanted to disassociate himself from you, don't fucking DARVO and flip the script on him now.

Here Vivian proceeds to trashtalk Jane for being a crap voice actor:

(Also, to be frank, the voice of the Marquis in the original was a terrible performer, and the simple act of replacing them with someone who actually knows how to voice act elevates the quality of the work SIGNIFICANTLY.)

Jane Brown is a documentary maker, he's not an actor so he doesn't have to "perform". If you wanted a performer to do your vocal samples, why didn't you replace Jane in the original to begin with? Oh right, because you were using these vocal sample requests as an excuse to contact other Youtubers and get them to notice you, associate themselves with you, with the implied obligation that they would share your videos with their samples. It was part of your networking strategy to grow your channel by associating yourself with bigger Youtubers. I bet when Jane originally gave you the vocal sample, you were like: "Oh Jane, it's fantastic, you sound so great, you sound like I imagine the man himself must've sounded!".

As the poet Snow tha Product said in "Gaslight Road": "Every bitch you fuck with either crazy or amazing". That's a one line summary of narcissistic idealization and discarding if I've ever heard one.

Lastly, Vivian went and changed his Instagram avatar yet again, and apparently he was really taken by me saying he has very intense, expressive eyes?

"girl with kaleidoscope eyes" with a crystal ball emoji, and I see he also read my post where I said that he lives amongst ghosts.

Troon, I didn't point that you have intense eyes to flatter you! I just pointed out that you have Распу́тин eyes, and that you deliberately bug your eyes out which makes you look like a creep. JFC, this is why I don't want to say anything nice about a narc, not even acknowledge a tiny little nice thing about them, because I know how they latch onto that stuff. If I write here that Vivian looks fugly, provide multiple screenshots of him looking creepy and deliberately so by his own doing, but then concede that he happens to have Распу́тин eyes, this is what happens.

If you're wondering what the "kaleidoscope" thing is in reference to, Vivian basically thinks that "mirror neurons" are literally mirrors. Such is his narcissism that he has to feel like he's looking at himself whenever he encounters another person looking at him and perceiving him, so he imagines other people literally as tiny mirrors in the "kaleidoscope" of life. So you only exist for the narc to marvel at himself, is the point. Break your conditioning tattcat, do it now before it's too late!

 

[The Gays From LA]

With the benefit of hindsight: Vivian Strange telling on himself in his Letterboxd reviews - Choosing addiction over movies: "Once you go in, you won't find your way out. The world we carved for ourselves is an empty and lonely hideout where no one can ever visit you, our own dark and lonely world"

This was Vivian reviewing a documentary about khat drug addicts in Ethiopia, Faya Dayi:

Until now, Mohammad has not become a khat chewer, although the allure of it has long tempted him. But now, after choosing to stay, he ventures to ask his father: "I'm tired of everything. Tell me about your world, where you go." "Don't fantasize about it," his father replies, but then Mohammad quietly shatters a window of the fourth wall:

"I heard someone say that when people are high, they start watching films in their mind."

This is about when I started to tear up. And within five minutes, I would be bawling.

"Once you go in, you won't find your way out. The world we carved for ourselves is an empty and lonely hideout where no one can ever visit you, our own dark and lonely world. Everywhere I turn I see darkness."

A ★★★★★ review of Faya Dayi (2021)

"Do you want to live in darkness?" On Wikipedia, this film is called a "documentary," and its plot summary simply says, "the film explores the religious rituals of khat chewing." This is inadequate to the point of insult against the entire history of cinema. Khat is a plant native to Ethiopia...

letterboxd.com

Vivian knew that this is what addiction is like, yet he still wanted to become a cocaine addict.

This is why you should never feel sorry for Vivian because he's doing it to himself, against his own better judgement.

The movies are where we learn to dream. And when we're in hell, we must dream to survive. And it may be hard to understand for a lot of us, especially Americans and Europeans, just how important spaces like this ramshackle movie theater are for poor and marginalized communities. This beautiful and desperately needed film exists because someone learned to dream in there. A young soul born and raised in the darkness sat in one of these theaters, and she learned that God isn't in the leaves - God is in the light. This soul escaped from the darkness, fought for and seized the tools and techniques withheld by the privileged, and used the divine power of cinema to illuminate a story that would never have been told otherwise.

https://letterboxd.com/vivian_strange/film/faya-dayi/
Archive: https://archive.is/XTX4t

Vivian wrote this about addiction and movies in 2021, praising the filmmaker of Faya Dayi for chosing to make films instead doing drugs: "A young soul born and raised in the darkness sat in one of these theaters, and she learned that God isn't in the leaves - God is in the light."

Despite writing this review 3 years ago, Vivian in the end chose drugs over movies. Vivian rages at Hollywood saying it made him waste his time, but he's perfectly happy to allow the drugs to waste not just his time but his mind, his body, his psyche, his health and his relationships. Vivian is openly addicted to cocaine right now, and lying to people on GoFundMe about being on the verge of eviction to obtain the money to buy more coke. He's openly snorting lines on Livestreams in violation of Youtube's ToS against public drug abuse, while banning any user in the chat telling him to sober up because he plainly sounds like a babbling junkie.

NOTE: Ethiopia is an African country with a high prevalence of FGM. The reason so many people there, including more and more women, consume khat is because in some regions 50 - 90% of all Ethiopian women have had their genitals destroyed by the savage butchery of FGM. Most female khat consumers are muslim. FGM is predominantly an African Islamist sex crime against women. Vivian does not mention any of this as relevant factors for widespread drug addiction.

In Oromia region, 87.2% of women have undergone FGM (DHS, 2005), or 58.5% according to EGLDAM, 2007. FGM is sometimes carried out on infant girls as early as the 8th day after birth, but sometimes later.

FGM in Oromia

In Afan Oromo the traditionally accepted word for FGM which continues to be used is ‘kitaanaa’. This word does not convey the concept or perception of a ‘mutilation’ and distinctions based on the …

advocacy4oromia.org

https://www.fgmcri.org/media/uploads/Country%20Research%20and%20Resources/Ethiopia/ethiopia_prevalence_map_(dhs_2016)_with_population.jpg

Prevalence and determinants of chewing khat among women in Ethiopia: data from Ethiopian demographic and health survey 2016 - PMC

In Ethiopia and other countries in eastern Africa, khat abuse is an increasing public health problem. Levels of use appear to be increasing in women, who are more vulnerable to khat-related problems. However, population-based data are lacking as ...

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

 

[The Gays From LA]

Vivian Strange: Gimme money to doxx my former best friends on Patreon, the financial struggle is real in spite of me getting a Big Girl Job, ALLEGEDLY - Quoting from the Patreon Community Guidelines against the harassment and doxxing of other Patreon content creators

Vivian posted a new video, let's see what he has to say today:

He still has the Romani flag in the background, so he's still LAPRing as Romani, despite Tali calling him out on his bullshit LARP.

"First, thank you, I know I look fantastic, I didn't get done up for yew though.", that hat belongs to Aziel, give it back you thief. You'd better not get done up like a washed up goth slut, because I would've sent you back to your closet.

"I have a date tonight"... imagine going on a date with this:

Hey "tattcat", if you're reading this, you deserve better than this scumbag.

"I'm Vivian Strong, BTW, Vivian Goodnight Strong... Vivian Strange is never going to come back", then change your channel name if you're gonna post under your troon name. Better yet, delete your old channel and start a new one cos there's only a couple of 100 people watching you now.

"(some demented bullshit about his new alter ego killing off his old alter ego)", don't care about you creating a new alter ego that's just as big a narc as your old one. You're not David Bowie dude.

Then Vivian openly announces lets leftover viewers that he has been doxxing his DMs with the victims on his new "Video Star" series:

It's me, I'm reacting to my old video content, um, and yeah, I'm gonna go through everything. And when I say everything, I mean everything. (At this point the text "receipts included!" appears on the screen). Meaning that everyone who has wondered why I haven't really come out yet and shared my story, my version of things and, or defended myself really, anyway, um, well, this is gonna be that. In part, it's so much bigger than that. Ooof! Balls! I'm stoned! Kinda nervous about my date, actually! It's a really good one! To anyone who's wonder, and yeah, if you can't tell, I'm doing pretty good. The financial struggle is still...Patreon! This series called Internet Killed the Video Star is gonna be exclusively on Patreon. (...) My story is much more than the people who have assumed and said the worst things about me. My story is so much more bigger than them. They did take up a significant portion of my life. These last 4 years have been so much and we're gonna process, I'm processing them. I'm going back, chronologically and processing them. And, because this is what I've gotten good at, and what I've built up an audience with, I'm gonna be doing that for y'alls entertainment. "Entertainment" is a strong word, a lot of it will not be very entertaining, but it will be illuminating. And ultimately I won't need to say anything else, after. Anyways, I kinda zoned out. Go join the Patreon, you'll get access to the House Discord too.

"My story is so much more", no it isn't, your narcissism is very typical and text-book actually, it's very simple. You targeted multiple people on the internet under the false pretense of wanting to collab with them and tried to groom them into becoming your sex slaves with your doctrinaire "relationship anarchy" bullshit. Because you're such a pathological liar who lies all the time about everything, they all began to see through your lies stacking up overtime, and they all told you to fuck off eventually. Now you've found this new "tattcat" person to groom and manipulate, and you immediately made a video to brag about how you, despite being "cancelled", managed to manipulate another person into associating with you. And now you want to be awarded on Patreon for doxxing your former best friends, despite recanting on your promise not to do so. Also, you recanted on your promise to delete your Discord server where your members were threatening your victims while being instigated against them by you constantly badmouthing them behind their backs.

But it's totally OK that he's doxxing them, cos all the wanted was for his victims to be happy y'all!

This is literally how fucking cheap he is: not only is he gonna make true on his threats to doxx the DMs, he's gonna monetize violating the privacy of his former best friends because that's how much of a fucking bastard he is.

It's amazing to me how dozens of Youtubers made videos about Jake Doolittle threatening to doxx all the Youtubers ignoring his non-profit but Vivian gets off the hook with continuing to torment his victims. This troon better thank his lucky stars he's so insignificant and Youtube has already demoted him, otherwise he'd deserve a backlash even more than Jake Doolittle did.

BTW, does Vivian know that the harassment, threatening and doxxing of other Patreon creators by a Patreon creator is grounds to have his own Patreon account suspended? Doxxing other content creators as well as threatening them with doxxing is explicitly prohibited on Patreon as per their Community Guidelines and FAQ:

Doxxing is a form of harassment in which someone shares an individual’s personally identifiable information (e.g. home address, phone number, bank account information, medical information) online without consent. This abusive act can lead to on- and offline harms against the individual such as stalking, emotional distress, physical harm, job loss, and identity theft. Patreon prohibits creators and fans on the platform from engaging in or encouraging doxxing. Exceptions to this policy may include someone publishing their own personally identifiable information, publishing someone else’s personally identifiable information with the individual’s consent, and sensitive information from documents properly in the public domain (e.g. court filings, press releases, news articles).

Community Guidelines — Patreon

Patreon is the best place for creators to build memberships by providing exclusive access to their work and a deeper connection with their communities.

www.patreon.com

Furthermore, the Patreon FAQ contains the following section on doxxing, "Why Doxing Is Not Allowed on Patreon":

Creators and fans are empowered to express themselves on Patreon, though not at the expense of anyone else’s safety or privacy.

Doxxing is a form of harassment in which someone shares an individual’s personally identifiable information (e.g. home address, phone number, bank account information, medical information) online without consent. This abusive act can lead to on- and offline harms against the individual such as stalking, emotional distress, physical harm, job loss, and identity theft.

Patreon prohibits creators and fans on the platform from engaging in or encouraging doxxing.

Fortunately, the vast majority of creators and fans on Patreon don’t try to hurt other people through doxxing or similar abuse. Our Trust & Safety team takes a strong stance in those rare circumstances that someone does participate in doxxing on Patreon, because we know of the real-world harm it can cause.

https://support.patreon.com/hc/en-us/articles/115004124003-Why-Doxing-Is-Not-Allowed-on-Patreon

I don't know about Aziel and Elaine, but both Lola and Jane have Patreon accounts, so they are both covered by Patreon's anti-doxxing policy:

Get more from Lola Sebastian on Patreon

video essays

www.patreon.com

Get more from Style is Substance on Patreon

film analysis videos

www.patreon.com

I'm obviously not going to report Vivian myself because that's against the forum rules (and no way in hell will I ever doxx myself to Patreon, thank you very much), but I do want people to know that Vivian is literally in violation of Patreon's rules by continuing to threaten other content creators in this manner. Posting contradictory statements in his videos like "I just wanted y'all to be happy" doesn't distract from what he's actually doing to them, which is effectively monetizing his threats on Patreon, the very platform he's doxxing their DMs.

 

[The Gays From LA]

With the benefit of hindsight: Vivian Strange telling on himself on Letterboxd - "because violence is fun"

I can sincerely agree and sympathize with Tarantino when he's like, "because violence is FUN, Janice!" Shit is so goddamn fun. This movie is so goddamn fun

A review of Django Unchained (2012)

oh fuck, I forgot how much I love Tarantino's work. It's just been so popular and easy to hate the guy for the last decade. But time has given some historical perspective, and honestly, speaking as a socially-conscious (albeit white) artist on this side of a world-altering pandemic, multiple...

letterboxd.com

Hey Vivian, why did you go and private all of the Livestreams where you were openly instigating for violence? Is violence no longer fun? Or do you not want your new Letterboxd date to see how actually extremist and unhinged you actually are? This thread and the transcripts herein exist whether you private those Livestreams or not. Or would you like to see mirrors of those Livestreams start to appear where you can't take them down and where your new date can definitely go and watch them to learn who you really are and much "fun" you actually think violence is?

Sounds familiar eh? "No boundaries, gray area"

"I guess what I'm saying is, there were messages that I didn't realize were messages. Things that I just didn't even pick up on, that were a part of it, that I wonder if other people did or not."

BTW, notice who's sitting across from Manson during this shot? Why, isn't that Sofia from Shortbus:

 

[The Gays From LA]

With the benefit of hindsight: Vivian Strange telling on himself on Letterboxd - Vivian's original Letterboxd bios: "A queer cinebimbo, hornt for strange movies"

I found Vivian's original Letterboxd bios on archive.org
Here's the first one:

Bio
I like movies. I write them too.

I come to art expecting only to have an Experience. I’m no critic, just a queer cinebimbo hornt over films leaning toward The Strange. I don’t measure movies by the standards of Scorsese stans, Disney simps, camp connoisseurs, or adolescent arthouse assholes.

https://letterboxd.com/Maya_V_Strange

Maya Strange’s profile

Maya uses Letterboxd to share film reviews and lists. 1,661 films watched. Favorites: Mulholland Drive (2001), Funeral Parade of Roses (1969), Daisies (1966), Bo Burnham: Inside (2021). Bio: I like movies. I write them too. I come to art expecting only to have an Experience. I’m no critic, just...

web.archive.org

"I write them too"? Troon, you've only ever written ONE screenplay that was made into a movie, and that movie, White Picket Wives, is no longer online and isn't even on Letterboxd. All of your other alleged screenplays are just fanfic versions of existing movies that you've trooned out, just like Vera Drew did when he trooned out Batman movies for The People's Joker. The difference is, Vera Drew did actually manage to make a whole-ass movie out his fanfic. This is why he's a real filmmaker and you're not.

Later Vivian changed bio into this, which was only more concentrated in obnoxiousness:

I come to art for Experiences. I’m no critic, just a queer cinebimbo essayist and screenwriter, hornt for strange movies.

Standards? Pshaw! I’m just here for art, to follow where my weird little heart takes me. I spit on your rating system and pass out stars like cheap cigars.

Maya Strange’s profile

Maya uses Letterboxd to share film reviews and lists. 1,701 films watched. Favorites: Titane (2021), Bo Burnham: Inside (2021), Love Exposure (2008), Breakfast on Pluto (2005). Bio: I come to art for Experiences. I’m no critic, just a queer cinebimbo essayist and screenwriter, hornt for strange...

web.archive.org

And again he calls himself a screenwriter when literally none of his alleged screenplays will ever be made into films, save for White Picket Wives which has mysteriously disappeared from Vimeo.

Later still, Vivian changed his Letterboxd bio to this, which was only slightly less obnoxious than the previous ones, because now he had a Youtube channel to promote, so he toned down the obnoxiousness just a notch to get people to visit the link to his channel:

Radical queer genderweird critic. Curator of Strange cinema. Shameless YouTuber.

go subscribe to my channel for unusual and often controversial takes on media, culture, and queerness!

youtube.com/@vivianstrange

Vivian Strange’s profile

Vivian uses Letterboxd to share film reviews and lists. 1,971 films watched. Favorites: Mulholland Drive (2001), Funeral Parade of Roses (1969), Daisies (1966), House (1977). Bio: Radical queer genderweird critic. Curator of Strange cinema. Shameless YouTuber. go subscribe to my channel for...

web.archive.org

 

[The Gays From LA]

Relationship Anarchy is just a cover for fuckboys - Vivian posts "A Short Instructional Manifesto for Relationship Anarchy", ignoring the fact that he has violated all the guidelines in that document in his conduct towards Jane, Lola, Elaine and Aziel

I wonder, does Vivian ever ask permission from living authors to use their writings for his Cabaret Voltairine videos? I wonder if someone advocating for relationship anarchy would want to have their words associated with a serial abuser who drives young people suicidal by manipulating them:

Let's have a look at the manifesto itself - which Vivian as usual doesn't link to - and highlight all the rules that Vivian has violated in his conduct with Jane, Elaine, Aziel and Lola:

The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy

Andie Nordgren The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy 2006

theanarchistlibrary.org

Love is abundant, and every relationship is unique
Relationship anarchy questions the idea that love is a limited resource that can only be real if restricted to a couple. You have capacity to love more than one person, and one relationship and the love felt for that person does not diminish love felt for another. Don’t rank and compare people and relationships — cherish the individual and your connection to them. One person in your life does not need to be named primary for the relationship to be real. Each relationship is independent, and a relationship between autonomous individuals.

I'm gonna counter this by quoting Marilyn Manson, because he said better than I ever could:

"When you're taught to love everyone, to love your enemies, then what value does that place on love?" – Marilyn Manson

No, love is not abundant, because the kind of love you give is something only you can give as a unique individual. No one else in the world can give that love because they are not you and their love is something different from yours. (Also, anyone who tells you they're not comparing you to their previous partners is lying to you. People are always comparing everything, personalities, body parts, purses, everything is being compared. Vivian doesn't want to be compared to anyone else because he's a scumbag by even the most generous metric.) Love is only abundant to a narc who refuses to see people as unique and only sees them as indiscriminate resources he can extract one and the same supply from.

Instead of linking to the original text, Vivian links to a whole bunch of other essays, implying he has read them all:

So I went and I read one of the other essays, and it's the usual "anything goes but actually nothing goes" that is so typical of the gender cult:

If you want to have casual sex, fine. If you don’t want to be romantically involved with anyone, fine. If you’re polyamorous, fine. But the term “relationship anarchy” is not here for you because it’s not just a label. It’s not a fucking identity. It is a set of principles that informs the structure of a person’s relationships and how they experience emotional connection, affection, and commitment with people they care about. Originally, it was the logical result of political anarchists applying their politics to their relationships. (Notice where Andie Nordgren’s RA Manifesto is hosted: theanarchistlibrary.org.) Relationship anarchy doesn’t have to include sex at all, and sometimes it doesn’t. It doesn’t have to include romance at all, and sometimes it doesn’t. What it does have to include, as a practice that is legitimately different from polyamory and other forms of consensual nonmonogamy, is a politics that actively resists relationship hierarchy as a coercive structure reflective of our culture’s value system. That value system includes amatonormativity, compulsory sexuality, heteronormativity, the sexualization and romanticization of touch/affection/emotional connection (for the purpose of reinforcing hetero-patriarchy via homophobia and on the basis of the sexualized inequality between males and females), individualism of the neoliberal sensibility, and above all, capitalism.

Relationship Anarchy is not About Sex or Polyamory

The Thinking Aro Relationship Anarchy is not About Sex or Polyamory June 6, 2016

theanarchistlibrary.org

Vivian Strange is a fuckboy (or a fuqtroon, if you prefer) who linked to an essay that literally ends with this sentence: "Relationship anarchy is not a cover for fuckboys". Vivian, did you even read the essay you linked to? It literally warns serial abusers like yourself against using it as a cover for their abuse.

Here's the thing though, Vivian: if you don't believe in a hierarchy of relationships, why the hell did you marry Serafina and adopt his surname? To better manipulate him by declaring him your official "favourite", after you spent months trashtalking him to your friends while plotting get away from him with Lola and Jane? To snub Lola by getting married before she did, after you tried to talk her out of getting married for months, thus pulling yet another 180 mindfuck on her? Clearly you too have a hierarchy where some people are your "favourites" and others are your side-bitches and yet others your disposable cum-rags, you just pretend to have divested yourself from these hierarchies, because that's what the gender cult expects you to do. Instead of being honest about how you actually live your life, you link to these essays when these have absolutely nothing to do with how you actually treat people in your life. Every normal human being has certain people they like better than others. There is nothing wrong with having such "hierarchies", the wrongness is in people like you pretending you're sooo above that because you are sooo much better than everyone else.

Next, have a look at this gargantuan dissertation on relationship anarchy that Vivian linked to, which I didn't read because I really don't have any time for cheaters making up convoluted excuses for their cheating, but Vivian wants us to believe he somehow had the presence of mind to have actually read this entire thing:

Relationship Anarchy

Juan Carlos Pérez Cortés Relationship Anarchy Occupy Intimacy! December 2022 Website of the book. Published in ebook, paperback and hard cover by La Oveja...

theanarchistlibrary.org

Am I really supposed to believe that HRT-brained Vivian has actually read all this? LMAO! Naw, I refuse to believe that. I think he just linked to this essay without having a read a single damn word. There is no fucking way you have read all that, and still came to the conclusion that guilt-tripping your best friend into giving you a blowjob by commenting on the way she dresses when she goes out with you, later emotionally blackmailing her with threatening to leak all of your DMs , where is no way you can read that text and decide it's an acceptable manifestation of relationship anarchy.

 

[Fatness Everdeen]

Relationship Anarchy is just a cover for fuckboys - Vivian posts "A Short Instructional Manifesto for Relationship Anarchy", ignoring the fact that he has violated all the guidelines in that document in his conduct towards Jane, Lola, Elaine and Aziel

I wonder, does Vivian ever ask permission from living authors to use their writings for his Cabaret Voltairine videos? I wonder if someone advocating for relationship anarchy would want to have their words associated with a serial abuser who drives young people suicidal by manipulating them:

Let's have a look at the manifesto itself - which Vivian as usual doesn't link to - and highlight all the rules that Vivian has violated in his conduct with Jane, Elaine, Aziel and Lola:

The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy

Andie Nordgren The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy 2006

theanarchistlibrary.org

I'm gonna counter this by quoting Marilyn Manson, because he said better than I ever could:



No, love is not abundant, because the kind of love you give is something only you can give as a unique individual. No one else in the world can give that love because they are not you and their love is something different from yours. (Also, anyone who tells you they're not comparing you to their previous partners is lying to you. People are always comparing everything, personalities, body parts, purses, everything is being compared. Vivian doesn't want to be compared to anyone else because he's a scumbag by even the most generous metric.) Love is only abundant to a narc who refuses to see people as unique and only sees them as indiscriminate resources he can extract one and the same supply from.

Instead of linking to the original text, Vivian links to a whole bunch of other essays, implying he has read them all:
View attachment 80441


So I went and I read one of the other essays, and it's the usual "anything goes but actually nothing goes" that is so typical of the gender cult:



Vivian Strange is a fuckboy (or a fuqtroon, if you prefer) who linked an essay that literally ends with this sentence: "Relationship anarchy is not a cover for fuckboys". Vivian, did you even read the essay you linked to? It literally warns serial abusers like yourself against using it as a cover for their abuse.

Here's the thing though, Vivian: if you don't believe in a hierarchy of relationships, why the hell did you marry Serafina and adopt his surname? To better manipulate him by declaring him your official "favourite", after you spent months trashtalking him to your friends while plotting get away from him with Lola and Jane? To snub Lola by getting married before she did, after you tried to talk her out of getting married for months, thus pulling yet another 180 mindfuck on her? Clearly you too have a hierarchy where some people are your "favourites" and others are your side-bitches and yet others your disposable cum-rags, you just pretend to have divested yourself from these hierarchies, because that's what the gender cult expects you to do. Instead of being honest about how you actually live your life, you link to these essays when these have absolutely nothing to do with how you actually treat people in your life. Every normal human being has certain people they like better than others. There is nothing wrong with having such "hierarchies", the wrongness is in people like you pretending you're sooo above that because you are sooo much better than everyone else.

Next, have a look at this gargantuan dissertation on relationship anarchy that Vivian linked to, which I didn't read because I really don't have any time for cheaters making up convoluted excuses for their cheating, but Vivian wants us to believe he somehow had the presence of mind to have actually read this entire thing:

Relationship Anarchy

Juan Carlos Pérez Cortés Relationship Anarchy Occupy Intimacy! December 2022 Website of the book. Published in ebook, paperback and hard cover by La Oveja...

theanarchistlibrary.org

Am I really supposed to believe that HRT-brained Vivian has actually read all this? LMAO! Naw, I refuse to believe that. I think he just linked to this essay without having a read a single damn word. There is no fucking way you have read all that, and still came to the conclusion that guilt-tripping your best friend into giving you a blowjob by commenting on the way she dresses when she goes out with you, later emotionally blackmailing her with threatening to leak all of your DMs , where is no way you can read that text and decide it's an acceptable manifestation of relationship anarchy.

I mean if I'm going to take relationship advice from anyone, I would certainly take it from Marilyn Manson.

 

[The Gays From LA]

I mean if I'm going to take relationship advice from anyone, I would certainly take it from Marilyn Manson.

Hey, you know me, I only get my relationship advice from Sima Aunty from Indian Matchmaking:

Marilyn Manson is actually married now, so he's probably a better source of relationship advice than queer sex club-hopping chemsex-having Vivian Strange is. I don't even know if Vivian is actually legally married to Serafina, he claims he is but then again, Vivian claims all sorts of things about himself that turn out to be bullshit.

 

[Fatness Everdeen]

Hey, you know me, I only get my relationship advice from Sima Aunty from Indian Matchmaking:

Marilyn Manson is actually married now, so he's probably a better source of relationship advice than queer sex club-hopping chemsex-having Vivian Strange is. I don't even know if Vivian is actually legally married to Serafina, he claims he is but then again, Vivian claims all sorts of things about himself that turn out to be bullshit.

All the relationship advice I've ever needed with friends and family can be found in these two videos:

 

[The Gays From LA]

BREAKING: Youtuber Ali Nahdee has cut ties with Vivian Strange: "I am furious. I am angry. I am cutting ties forever." - Responding to Mainely Mandy's BlueSky thread about serial abusers like Vivian Strange: "We can't keep pulling shocked pikachu faces every time another one of "The Good Ones" reveals their true colors" - Vivian Strange on Youtube: "I'm no longer poly, I am RApey!"

@ihavedemons check this out, yet ANOTHER Youtuber has cut ties with Vivian Strange!

Youtuber Ali Nahdee just announced on BlueSky that she is cutting ties with Vivian Strange:

I owe a great deal of gratitude to Vivian Strange for helping me every single step of the way with my Twilight video but that is where it ends. I am furious. I am angry. I am cutting ties forever.

https://bsky.app/profile/alinahdee.bsky.social/post/3lfs6aewifs2b Archived: https://archive.is/0kNjH

So I guess Ali Nahdee had no idea all this time about Vivian Strange serially abusing all these Youtubers? Until Sarah from The Leftist Cooks reached out to her and informed her? That's depressing actually, this thread is not getting out to the people who need to see it.


Ali Nahdee also shared this Discord message to whom I assume is Vivian, which I will read closely because she is apparently referring to various things they were talking about while they became friends and collaborators on Youtube:

So I finished reading through those messages.

I am guessing "those messages" are the DMs that Vivian is now doxxing in his paywalled Patreon videos? Apparently Vivian sent those DMs to Ali Nahdee while trying to prove his innocence to her?

And I noticed that they look identical to conversations we've had. Conversations that I took to heart and thought were genuine and supportive.

This part actually stopped me in my tracks... because this suggests that Vivian had, like, a standardized script for how he would approach Youtubers and win their trust. Ali says that the DMs she read (presumably between Vivian and his victims) were similar to the DMs that she had with Vivian when he first approached her.

And now I'm wondering if you just saw a vulnerable Native woman and thought that I'd be an easy target.

Pretty much that, and that's also what the victims literally wrote in their Google Doc to warn others about the types of people that Vivian is known to target:

VERDICT

Our testimonies reveal common patterns in Vivian’s taste in women and her behavior towards them. Vivian has a taste for the vulnerable, from the young and inexperienced Elaine and Aziel, to the traumatized Lola and Jane. She is drawn to those who are lonely, and those who have health issues. She is drawn to YouTubers and filmmakers. She will assert dominance in her friendships by taking over their minds, insist on a value she brings to the relationship, and express anger and disappointment when she does not achieve her goals. She will project her issues onto others and rebound criticisms directed her way. She will establish trust with her victims and then use their trust against them. Her politics stem from her desire to to be liked, to be loved, to go down in history, and to not sufficiently support her partner. She frequently calls herself “famous” and expresses delusions of grandeur. She makes people worse versions of their former selves. She corrupts what is beautiful, or at least tries.
There are other victims out there. This document is for them. Vivian Strong uses people for personal gain, whether it’s people like us or the people of Palestine.

Vivian Strong Statement

VIVIAN STRONG STATEMENT “If it exists, it must be examined.” Last revised 10/13/24 for verbiage and clarity. INTRODUCTION We are a group of women and non-binary people who were harmed by Vivian Strong better known online as Vivian Strange or Maya V Strange. She is formerly known as Dorian Stron...

docs.google.com

https://archive.is/pm0qi

Ali Nahdee continues:

What is this? Are you keeping tabs so that should anything happen you can be like "See? I was consistent. I asked for consent I respected boundaries. I did everything right." We you covering your own tracks?

He was following the William Control playbook. He wanted to be the King of Receipts. But seriously now, I can already predict what Vivian is gonna say to this: "Yes Ali, I do actually have to screengrab everything and cover my tracks extensively because unlike you, I am a troon and I can be accused of rape literally at the drop of hat. If that happens, my accusers will be believed over me, with no due process for me to defend myself." (Geez, I wonder why everyone believes them over you, Vivian... perhaps because you literally threatened to doxx your DMs with them to punish them for speaking out? Then recanted, then did it anyway, but placed your doxxing behind a paywall to force your victims to pay you just to watch you humiliate them on Patreon?)

See how well I know these troons and their bullshit? They always say this shit. I bet he's gonna say the real, practical reason he goes to the queer sex club is not because he's a degenerate, but because he needs to have witnesses around every time he has sex in case there's more "false rape hysteria just because I'm trans". Not because he himself is a narcissistic exhibitionist who gets off being gross before others or anything like that.

Because maybe that would've worked if these relationships were purely online. But they weren't.

Well, the relationship with Jane and Elaine was, AFAIU, purely online, but it did have an IRL component because Vivian told Jane that he too was gonna move to LA with Lola. Jane wanted to move to LA because Elaine lives there in Torrence, and because Jane and Elaine were already working on their documentary series I Wish I Were A Camera together. So Jane had two legit reasons to be in LA: his boyfriend was there, and they were editing the documentary together (that they are still working on, hoping to release a supercut later this year). Vivian on the other hand had told Lola that he no longer wanted to move to LA with her, if Lola was gonna bring Tali along to live with them. Vivian was also, at the same, gaslighting Jane with that he too was going to be in LA with him and Elaine. So, even though these relationship were "purely online", Vivian was working towards meeting these people (Jane and Elaine) IRL, just like he eventually did with Lola and later inviting Aziel to stay with him and Serafina in Portland.

We don't know what happened behind te scenes. We don't know what happened in person.

Indeed, we don't, but if you watched Vivian's Livesteams (that he has now privated to cover up) and you watched the I Wish I Were A Camera series, you could read between the lines and tell that something was up. I knew something was up, and was posting about it in this thread while quoting from the Livestreams (because those were public at the time), I just had no idea how bad it actually was.

And I might have been receptive to your flattery and your flirting because I thought it was harmless fun and cute.

Look, if Ali Nahdee was being flattered by the narc love-bombing her in the initial stages of their friendship, she must've thought that "Oh, that's just Vivian being gay, that's just his gay self" while he was being gregarious, that's probably what most these people thought in the beginning. But then they realized that he was slowly escalating, while gaslighting them about his true intentions, and that when things got creepy and rapey.

If I --HADN'T?-- You bet your ass I would've found these overbearing, overwhelming, and would've been VERY uncomfortable especially if we knew each other in person.

Indeed, the fact that one person didn't have a problem with the gregariousness, that doesn't mean he can just escalate with everyone else because Vivian expected to have universal unfettered access to everyone under the guise of "relationship anarchy".

You broke my fucking heart, Vivian. I believed in you. I thought you believed in me. This is devastating.

It is sad and devastating. All these people at one point saw something of value in Vivian, but he destroyed all those relationships with his sexual predation, because getting his gurldique suqed was more important to him than having genuine, lasting friendships.

Vivian thinks that just because he has a handful of DMs of him flirting with someone and they didn't immediately object to his gregariousness or tell him to can it at once (because most people simply don't realize they're being love-bombed by a narc, especially if they've never experienced it before), that means they automatically consented to everything he did to them thereafter. Lola already pointed out that Vivian (pretends he) doesn't understand the concept of continuous consent.

Youtuber Mainely Mandy, another ex-friend and ex-collaborator of Vivian Strange, just posted this thread about her disappointment in the way Vivian has conducted himself ever since his former best friends called him out, taking no accountability while denying everything:

Mainely Mandy (@mainelymandy.bsky.social)

CW for abuse There's so much I think we need to talk about when it comes to abusers we think of as leftist and therefore safe. I don't even know how to start them beyond maybe just acknowledging the pain of all (and hey, maybe that is a good way to start) but its getting so disheartening. 1/?

bsky.app

CW for abuse

There's so much I think we need to talk about when it comes to abusers we think of as leftist and therefore safe. I don't even know how to start them beyond maybe just acknowledging the pain of all (and hey, maybe that is a good way to start) but its getting so disheartening. 1/?

The allegations about Vivian Strange really surprised me as did her reaction to it. She double down, claimed she was the victim of transmisogny (all but one of the people who came forward are trans), that no one was as good a leftist of her anyway, and shamed anyone who believed "without evidence."

(Its always implied people who know the truth and do their proper research will realize they are obviously innocent. If you can't find said evidence, clearly you did something wrong or you're gullible or something. Maybe you get accused of not being leftist enough ont op. Ironic for sure)

Vivian also claimed she was gonna come out with some tell all video but then said she was gonna quit Youtube without doing so (something about being the bigger person?).

She has since continued to upload, the majority appearing to be just her reading others' essays without any analysis attached.

Oh AND she reuploaded a video with new voice actors, presumably because some of those were people who supported her victims or were said victims themselves.

She labelled it a "Post Cancellation Remix."

Very cute. Very mature. Very big of you, sweetie.

Vivian's behavior is sadly not surprising. I keep seeing it, we all do. We're seeing the start of it with Gaiman's statement that he released this morning. We saw it with Franklin Veaux.

On and on this stupid ride goes and at this point not only do I want off, I never want on again.

Its always a "conspiracy." Its a bunch of people wanting to bring someone down. Its people just being haters or perhaps the poor poor victims of a mental illness.

They have nothing to apologize for or if they do, not what was revealed.

Maybe you'll get a "I'm sorry IF" if you're really lucky.

And btw, lets just acknowledge that in order for me to believe that THAT many people came together to actively lie about the person on the other side I would need to believe in a darkness that reaches cartoonishly evil levels.

Like seriously? THAT many people are willing to lie about you?

Why do people keep doing it?
Why does it hurt a little extra when someone like Vivian, someone I respected and actually knew to a degree, pulls this move?
How can anyone consider themselves a leftist and be so steadfast against accountability if they're on the other end?

Sophie, Vivian, Gaiman, We're in Hell, Whedon - I'm tired. I can feel myself growing all the more untrusting, of the people around and even of myself.

Because this can't at this point just be the fault of the predators themselves, right? That feels like a cop out.

I think its us too

'm a little bit rambly - I am tired and elevated and burned out - but I think what I'm trying to get at is I don't think we can just brush these off as individual cases, not when there are so many of them. Not when it keeps happening.

And that's a little terrifying and heartbreaking.

I think we have a serious problem. I think all self identified leftists need to take a long ass look at themselves. Because this can't keep happening. My heart can only take so many times because it fractures for good, and I already feel like I am in danger of breaking.

2024 I was withdrawn, for a lot of reasons we don't need to get into. I don't want to be like that in 2025. What's happening in the world requires community. We will need each other to get through this. But what's happening with Vivian, with Gaiman? I can feel the urge to withdraw coming on again.

I'm fighting that desire, trying to engage more in the things that make me happiest and reach out to people. But seeing just how many people cause harm and them will not face it, who take every opportunity to show leftism was never someone they clearly understood, makes it hard to resist.


Because I don't want to contribute to that system, I don't want to be complicit in anyone's harm. I don't want to look back in horror and realized I let another people be touched without permission.

Accountability is meant to be a community activity, one where a group comes together around the one who harmed and the one did the harm.
I think that also means looking at what we're as a community are doing (or failing to do) to keep such things from happening in the first place.

think we're failing each other and I don't know exactly what the solution is, nothing simple of course, but I know we can't keep not learning our lesson. We can't keep pulling shocked pikachu faces every time another one of "The Good Ones" reveals their true colors.

I want us to do better.

I'm going smoke a bowl and cuddle my cats and try to unwind. Take care of yourselves out there. Hold your loved ones close. Another wild ride likely waits for us tomorrow.

Reading threads like this breaks my heart... because unlike these people I've actually read the literature on Cluster Bs. They cannot be cured. Narcs think they are God's gift to society and it's society that's wrong for not recognizing their genius. Narcs only go to therapy to learn how to be better liars. Vivian will not change, he will always be a miserable junkie lying to people about being a screenwriter and feeding them other people's movies, never his own because because he will never make any of his own, in order to distract them from his misery and endear them to himself as the Cult Boyfriend. I know this is hard to accept because we all want people to get better, but I cannot argue with what the science says about these people. Vivian will always be seeking out new sources of narc supply to suck dry and discard. He will always be a destructive force to himself and especially to those around him, and he will never apologize or see any wrong in what he's doing. As a normal human being with normal emotions Amanda wants to have empathy for someone like that and to hope for the best, but you cannot have empathy for Cluster Bs because they don't even understand what that is. The best that you can hope for is to forget you ever knew them and never have anything to do with them ever again.

Amanda is doing a Livestream in a couple of days, so if you want to vent about Vivian recanting on his promise not to doxx his DMs with the victims but now doing it anyway behind the paywall of his Patreon account - thus essentially forcing the victims to have to pay to watch him continue to abuse them there - feel free to go here:

As for the Neil Gaiman thing, this video about that abuse scandal perfectly explains why I started the "With the benefit of hindsight" posts going over Vivian's old Letterboxd reviews:

Men can't help but to tell on themselves. A man should never joke with you about something so disturbing that, if it were true, it would actually make you feel like you were in danger.

This video is 1000% better, more informative and more empowering than the one that The Leftist Cooks made. This video will teach a victim how to recognize a predator so they never get taken advantage of again. The Leftist Cooks tell victims there is nothing they can do to protect themselves, that they have no tools to recognize a predator, which is demoralizing, disempowering, FALSE (because you can protect yourself, once you learn to trust your perceptive capacities and learn to read the signs) and it is a form of learned helplessness which is endemic in the left.

Predatory men rely on red herrings like quirkiness, intelligence or charisma or how they carry themselves to do the heavy lifting to distract people from the fact that they have no personality and are actually a really scary and calculating person. Almost as if they can only keep up their antics if they're in public and everyone is watching them. Watch out for that.

Vivian wallowing in his usual holier-than-thou posturing:

So he's no longer "poly", but he's RApey? Accurate! Does it really matter whether if someone calls themselves a polyfucker or a relationship anarchist? To outsiders of your little kink echo chamber, you're just a slut who is looking for excuses to cheat by politicizing your cheating into some kind of revolutionary act, regardless of what label you're putting on yourself.

Also, did you make your new target "tattcat" read all this shit before dating them? Did you make Serafina read this crap before marrying him? Did you even read it yourself, or are you only linking to it with the pretense that you've read it? I think it's the latter.