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I despise my mother

Cowboy

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this sounds like a joke at first maybe a reference to josh on blockland but i want to let something off my chest about my mom
today my father was cussed out and yelled at by my stupid whore mom he was working on something and she complained that he was not there to serve customers at the family diner and she cussed him out and acts like a fucking child she has to get you to agree with her and now my dad calls my brother mad that his wife is treating us like this and now shes blowing up at my brother and i want to talk about this and the long line of vile shit she has done

so growing up she was also terrible to my dad she would fight all the time i still remember the time she threw a knife on the ground and broke a flower pot cussing at my father she has continued this pattern of behavior my entire life and she usually goes to a handful of points mainly

1 her husband is turning her kids against her when we call out her bullshit
2 she is a victim who just wants a normal family despite her being the problem
3 her husband is lazy and other people have it better

it honestly infuriates me so fucking much when she acts like my father does nothing that man worked his ass off none stop so that we could eat and she blew all of his money he had a real estate company that crashed in the 08 recession and she blew most of his money he spent my whole life time trying to pay off the debt only for my mother to buy a new car and blow his money my poor father has had to deal with this bullshit then when i was a teenager and started to notice her bullshit it got way worse

one time she yelled at me and took my phone away for wanting to wear a black beanie that she picked out and she does this fake fucking life and when she does it it makes me so fucking mad she crushed my dreams as a kid to play basketball because i was homeschooled and she said thats never gonna happen and mockingly laughed at me i just wanted to try basketball i became very depressed as a kid and i cried almost every fucking day because of that whore i despise her so much hearing her fight with my brother makes me so fucking mad typing this she snapped at my brother for playing an online video game when we were kids it makes me so mad

she is insane and i have trauma from all the times she cussed my dad out today is just another day in the cycle she is currently melting down and will say my father turned us against her and cry and be the victim she is a victim she will say i do everything for you when you call her out she will say well you could have insert bad mother as your mom or when you call her out for being overprotective and not letting me do anything manly as a kid she will say better be safe then sorry all these excuses do not work on me she is a terrible mother and thats my rant i cannot wait intill she is out of my life and in the nursing home thanks for reading
 
I'll be honest... it sounds like I'm married to your mom, about the money spending and debt. Its excruciating as a man, to just feel like anything you earn is going to be squandered and just go to debt. Its like your accomplishments in your career are worthless.

That sounds terrible though, I'm sorry she belittles your dad and that you and your brother have to see that all the time. It really is hard on kids growing up to see that all the time, they don't know how to react. I can remember being a kid and hearing it, I just felt like, I don't think most other families do this, I know its not normal but why does it keep happening? Then its so strange the next day when everyone pretends like nothing happened, and you're still remembering your parents screaming hateful things at each other. Makes you feel like you don't live in reality.

You need to get out of there man. You'll feel a lot better not having to answer to anyone, even if you end up not being able to live for free at home.
 
I'll be honest... it sounds like I'm married to your mom, about the money spending and debt. Its excruciating as a man, to just feel like anything you earn is going to be squandered and just go to debt. Its like your accomplishments in your career are worthless.

That sounds terrible though, I'm sorry she belittles your dad and that you and your brother have to see that all the time. It really is hard on kids growing up to see that all the time, they don't know how to react. I can remember being a kid and hearing it, I just felt like, I don't think most other families do this, I know its not normal but why does it keep happening? Then its so strange the next day when everyone pretends like nothing happened, and you're still remembering your parents screaming hateful things at each other. Makes you feel like you don't live in reality.

You need to get out of there man. You'll feel a lot better not having to answer to anyone, even if you end up not being able to live for free at home.
i live in a dorm currently but she calls alot and they often ask me after class to help with the diner i thought when i moved into a dorm it would be done but no it has not i am hopeful though as my father said he may give me a tiny house to live out of on campus so i can be away from roomates and her but that he would do it if i help him with the diner so i am hopeful for that this is a temporary roadblock in my life
 
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