The thing is you live in Russia and I'm sure you've seen worse but he lived in the US where here all the things that Eastern yuros love about America-suburbia, wealth and opportunity are laden with a strong undercurrent of depravity, degeneracy and corruption running unchecked that Russian oligarchs can only aspire to, which are traps that suck your soul into the depths of hell because there is little to no accountability. Act like a piece of shit in your Russian commieblock? The neighborhood babushkas and men will straighten you out, and its when, not if. Whereas in the US you have nogs and Antifa killing and beating people to death and foreign jews importing illegals to undercut wages not only with impunity, but with the blessing and protection of the state and then the state gives them the things you work hard for-a decent home, a basic car to get to work and free money, health care and food stamps, while jeets on H1-B visas steal decent work and even cheap jobs, all the while moralizing that it's all your fault you can't earn a decent living. Everything here is your fault, you got to pick yourself up by your bootstraps and if you get sick with no insurance too bad, Ukraine and Israel need their free health care more than you do. Try the mega prosperity church, not for spirituality but to learn how to scam other miserable folk. It's not just boomers, either, 90% of Kiwi Farms posters say this shit. This wacko was born into circumstances most Russians would kill for but he lived like a drunken slob in a roach infested room of his own making and all he thought about was sick shit because he never got the help he needed. Nobody grabbed his ass and forced him to get help, or got on him to clean his room. Maybe his parents were shit at parenting but our families and communities are fragmented. We live transient lives so we never have roots and move around like hobos and are in constant misery because of it. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and siblings are scattered all across the US. Very few Americans live in the home or property their great grandparents built or owned, let alone the same town/city. You have to drive everywhere, you don't know your neighbors and you are alienated from everything and everyone in solitude. Fent, coke, weed and cheap alcohol are everywhere and porn is free. In this environment if you were abused, bullied and have a weak sense of self with an untreated mental illness, the result is Bruno Mattei who thinks video of children under five getting tortured and raped is funny.
So yes, you can have empathy up to a point, but he was failed and broken long before Kiwi Farms existed. He is the white version of the coon that killed that Ukrainian girl in North Carolina, except he hasn't killed anyone. That we know of.
Yet.