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Do you want to have kids?

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Personally, I wouldn’t. The idea of having a child with a severe disability like very low functioning autism is something I couldn't mentally or emotionally handle. I know it’s taboo to admit, but if my kid couldn't ever live independently, talk to me normally, have friends, get a job, or experience anything close to a normal life, I wouldn’t feel like I had the same experience of parenthood that most people do.


People always say "you’ll love them anyway" but I don’t think it’s fair to bring a life into this world if the potential outcome is that level of suffering or dependence. That's not the kind of parent I want to be, and I don't think everyone should have kids if they’re not willing to take on that risk.

Curious to what others think. Would you still want kids knowing there’s a chance you might never really connect with them in a typical way? Or is that a risk you think is worth it?
 
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Smeared Mascara said:
The older you get, the more you'll regret.

That apartment's going to start feeling empty as FUCK when you hit 40.
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I have legitimately never even kissed anyone and I fully intend to keep it that way for the rest of my life. I also have zero friends, and I try my best to keep it that way as well. I literally base my life around avoiding other people as much as I possibly can.
 
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He has a friend it’s me. Just kidding. I have three kids and seeing as it’s one of the only things you’ll ever do in life that gives your life real meaning I would say that’s the number one thing to roll the dice on. There’s other ways to have fulfillment in life, but people ask what the point of life is and that’s it. all life propagates. I would add Jesus into that equation for sure and I have to say that because he is god and our purpose is also to serve him. I worry sometimes about negative outcomes if I have more but it’s pretty unlikely especially if you avoid vaccinating them. That’s the big thing. Mine are healthy as a rabbits turd. And also you can still find happiness in them if there was some problem mentally obviously that’s why people say that
 
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MoonMetropolis said:
No.

I will die having never kissed anyone and I wouldn't want it any other way. I am absolutely repulsed by all forms of intimacy.
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So how old were you when you got funny touched by a relative?

Home said:
I’m more concerned about the “having zero friends” thing, how do you go that long without making a single connection?
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I'm thinking that this is a bit.
 
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I think what he is trying to say, if I were to use LGBT terms, is that he is aromantic and asexual when it comes to attraction, or something. And doesn't like social interactions in general due to being extremely introverted. Preferring online interactions over IRL ones, which is sort of understandable these days with how annoying people can be. Not everyone is a horny extrovert. Which is probably a good thing.
 
Reason: I don't like using LGBT terms and I doubt he does either but these ones are simple enough to understand and not as stupid.
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Gore San said:
I think what he is trying to say, if I were to use LGBT terms, is that he is aromantic and asexual when it comes to attraction, or something. And doesn't like social interactions in general due to being extremely introverted. Preferring online interactions over IRL ones, which is sort of understandable these days with how annoying people can be. Not everyone is a horny extrovert. Which is probably a good thing.
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I couldn't imagine being so introverted that my reptile brain keeps me from doing what we were put here for: protecting, breeding and feeding.
 
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Smeared Mascara said:
I couldn't imagine being so introverted that my reptile brain keeps me from doing what we were put here for: protecting, breeding and feeding.
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Don't forget seeding and sneeding
 
Reason: At least someone is evening out all the extra kids Mormons and Muslims are having.
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Home said:
I’m more concerned about the “having zero friends” thing, how do you go that long without making a single connection?
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There are no friends in this world. There are no good people, and there is absolutely nothing worth liking about people. All people are intrinsically rotten to the core. As such, I'm not interested in caring about people, and I certainly wouldn't want anyone caring about me either. The thought of anyone caring about me makes me extremely uncomfortable, and the thought of anyone loving me absolutely horrifies me.
 
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MoonMetropolis said:
There are no friends in this world. There are no good people, and there is absolutely nothing worth liking about people. All people are intrinsically rotten to the core. As such, I'm not interested in caring about people, and I certainly wouldn't want anyone caring about me either. The thought of anyone caring about me makes me extremely uncomfortable, and the thought of anyone loving me absolutely horrifies me.
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Bear Hammer said:
Personally, I wouldn’t. The idea of having a child with a severe disability like very low functioning autism is something I couldn't mentally or emotionally handle. I know it’s taboo to admit, but if my kid couldn't ever live independently, talk to me normally, have friends, get a job, or experience anything close to a normal life, I wouldn’t feel like I had the same experience of parenthood that most people do.


People always say "you’ll love them anyway" but I don’t think it’s fair to bring a life into this world if the potential outcome is that level of suffering or dependence. That's not the kind of parent I want to be, and I don't think everyone should have kids if they’re not willing to take on that risk.

Curious to what others think. Would you still want kids knowing there’s a chance you might never really connect with them in a typical way? Or is that a risk you think is worth it?
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Nah they’d probably be a gay stupid faggot compared to me

And not useful or worth the time
 
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MoonMetropolis said:
There are no friends in this world. There are no good people, and there is absolutely nothing worth liking about people. All people are intrinsically rotten to the core. As such, I'm not interested in caring about people, and I certainly wouldn't want anyone caring about me either. The thought of anyone caring about me makes me extremely uncomfortable, and the thought of anyone loving me absolutely horrifies me.
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I agree but believe it’s rather “there’s very little good people in this world”. To the point where it can justify avoiding the average person, but if you meet someone where things genuinely click, how can you be sure it’s not meant to be?
 
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The Real Sam Asp Glassen said:
No. I would prefer being a foster parent. There are approx 440 thousand foster kids in the US, and they could use a proper adult that doesnt use them for money.
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I don't know I've always looked at it as you're taking on somebody else's problem. And I know this is going to sound really fucked up, but I couldn't love a foster child like my own blood. I mean I would do what I could I wouldn't be mean to the kid, but I would always love my biological children more.
 
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The Cleaner said:
I don't know I've always looked at it as you're taking on somebody else's problem. And I know this is going to sound really fucked up, but I couldn't love a foster child like my own blood. I mean I would do what I could I wouldn't be mean to the kid, but I would always love my biological children more.
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Eh completely reasonable. bonding to someone not related to your blood is very different from familial bonds.
 
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